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683d

I've been struggling with being able to effectively complete my work and managing my symptoms. I give it my all at work, but then come home so exhausted I can barely move the rest of the night. If I take it easy at work, I can manage to do some things at home but its challenging balancing it. I feel like a failure for not being able to do the things and balance the way I used to be able to. I don't know if I need to cut back my hours at work or what. I feel like I'm letting everyone in my life down, especially my partner. I don't know what to do or how to manage these feelings at this point.

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    • rib

      673d

      @Rachie7 I need to remind myself of that. Thank you :)

    • Rachie7

      680d

      Remember that your health progress isn’t linear and will go up and down. Be patient with yourself

      • rib

        673d

        @Rachie7 I need to remind myself of that. Thank you :)

    • Keikochan

      682d

      I know how you feel, I used to work in a bakery and be on my feet for hours, but now I can barely go an hour without fainting. It's so hard but we are in this together. I'm here for you

      • rib

        673d

        @Keikochan I'm here for you too! It helps to have people who understand! Thank you

    • rib

      682d

      it really does help! I appreciate the love radiating off this message. Thank you💕

    • hazyeclipse

      683d

      It's not your fault. When you constantly feel ill, you're already expending so much energy trying to just.. endure the symptoms and slog through despite them. With your body screaming at you to rest, or slow down or lie down, etc, it's hard to keep going with normal activities because eventually you're just wiped. It might not be a bad idea to reduce your hours if you can. I promise you're not a failure, you're doing your best and that's all you can expect of yourself at the end of the day. Living with a chronic illness like this is pretty much life on hard mode. You should be proud of yourself for how much you *do* manage day to day. But I know it's hard not to feel like it's not enough sometimes. I struggle with the same thing daily, so I know how you feel. But I hope at least hearing from someone else that it *is* enough helps, even a little

    • Belugabear

      683d

      Know that you aren’t a failure 💕 it’s hard managing our symptoms! You can only do some much before your spoons run out!! Try not to be too hard on yourself.

      • rib

        682d

        @Belugabear thank you for your kind words. They help 💕

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