Ronin

370d

How do I tell my boyfriend that something he said hurt my feeling, without hurting his feelings?
My boyfriend said something to me, that in the moment I had to laugh away without it being awkward, but then I spent all day and night over thinking and almost had a panic attack. It hurt my feelings a lot and made me feel so bad, but I'm scared to tell him because I don't want to hurt his feeling back.

Anxiety (Including GAD)

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  • Sebby

    370d

    Just explain it hurt your feelings, I'm sure if you start with that he'll understand

  • hoolia

    370d

    the best way is to have an honest convo and state exactly how you’re feeling. say “i have something to talk to you about and i’ve been afraid to bring it up because i don’t want to hurt your feelings so i’ve been keeping it to myself”

  • Sebby

    370d

    I second that

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