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I feel like I constantly need attention and conversation. I'm going through a really difficult period in my life. My dad is dying from cancer, and it's been a hard 2 year battle. I find myself lately just wanting to talk to someone about anything. Is this a coping mechanism? why would I suddenly feel the urge to socialize during a time I would normally recluse?
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@TheUglyDuckling i 100% feel you. Idk where all the good hearted people went but they sure haven’t been around and it makes this whole thing so much harder because then I’m bitter
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Mental illness sucks because people would rather judge your behavior than try to understand WHY you're behaving strangely. There's always sympathy for people with cancer or crippled but Mental illness just seems to piss people off. No mercy at all.
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I feel this way also. I just hate being alone with my thoughts rn cuz my mental state is suffering and I’m vulnerable rn. I need normalcy. Usually I’m fine and deal well on my own. But everything is just so unbearable lately. I need a break from me sometimes but there’s no one or nowhere I really trust to just be normal and not pry. They don’t actually care or want to help, they’re just nosy usually. I want to talk and get help just not from people I don’t trust.
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Why? Because this is so hard. And a community of any kind is important right now. My dad just passed last month and I am still trying to rebuild mine
@Mochaandleaves honestly tik tok was the easiest thing for me to do
I'm lonely alot. I've slowly learned to enjoy solitude. I'm learning to be creative and exploring a side of myself I never knew existed. I've become more spiritual too. I still have a few people that understand me and that I feel comfortable with and that's important because of think total isolation is dangerous. I used to be very social and this adjustment was awful. I kept trying to fight it, to force myself to socialize and be "normal ". Once acceptance comes it's not too bad. I'm not inferior to who I used to be, I'm just different.
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I've cut off tons of people because they unintentionally trigger my ptsd and I freak out. It's embarrassing and painful and I'm sure they don't like it either. I long for friends but I've become afraid of people because I'm sure I'll irritate them and they'll go away and that hurts.
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@canoli how do you cope with that? I’m absolutely in the same boat
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I find myself doing this and sharing things that are "too much" for people and I have a strong feeling that no one likes me. I want a friend so bad but for some reason I can't keep them.
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@Gpack22 ugh. I feel that way a lot too!! Oversharing is like a double edged sword. It's great for building connection, but it can lead to some stress or embarrassment. I struggle with keeping friends too. I have a few good ones, but I seem to not get their attention or lose connection with them. It sucks. I really want consistency in my relationships.
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this is how i feel too. the more i don’t talk, the more pain.
Me too. I sometimes can't stop talking and I get faster and louder and then really upset. Sometimes I'll do this with a complete stranger and it's soooo embarrassing. Definitely gets worse with stress. It's much better when I talk with my therapist or understanding friends. I feel less desperate to talk. Cptsd sucks and I feel like regular people don't truly believe you can't help your behavior sometimes. I used to be very social but I isolate now because I'm scared of what I'll say. I'm doing ok right now but it always comes back with stress.
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@canoli that is 100% spot on
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I’m at the worst of my cptsd and that is EXACTLY what i feel like
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Thanks for awareness … People never get the support they need .
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