Qokko

314d

Can anyone recommend anything to help me feel more feminine? (I'm gender fluid and regularly want to feel more feminine but was born a man) Even with a pretty gender neutral haircut, I notice my facial features and body get in the way. although my body is also fairly slim. I'm stuck on what to do.

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  • Koii

    313d

    Something I love when I'm feeling feminine is press-on nails. It's something you'll see throughout the day, don't have to be looking in a mirror, but makes my feminine side swoon. Your real nails don't have to be perfect and they can be easily removed if you're not feeling it anymore. Something else I like is just wearing underwear/garments and fragrances that kinda 'fit' with where I'm feeling on the spectrum. Nobody else will notice them but it'll make my body feel more fem/masc no matter what I'm wearing over it. Adding pops of color in my hair also makes my fem side swoon, especially when it randomly falls into your line-of-sight throughout the day and you get that excited feeling all over again.

  • Lyd

    313d

    Maybe purchasing some breasts would be a good investment, some that are adhesive? Maybe wearing some makeup or nails? I’m not to sure

    • Qokko

      313d

      Thank you! I'll check that out

  • KittyKatKuo

    313d

    Bralettes for the win. Even small chested people of all types feel oddly sexy in a bralette. They are light, feminine, and they just do something for all body types. Garters can be a fun accessory as well, they can be cute, they can be sexy, and they make you wanna cat walk (stumble in my case as I'm clumsy). Nail polish can be quick and be both feminine or even neutral. Eyeshows can be fun as well if feeling a bit more bold. Eyeliner stamps, that'd right these little things come in hearts or stars or moons you name it and you can give yourself some cute freckles with em or even decorate your eyes. Corsets can be sexy as well, all bodies look so good in them and it can bring that fem side out. Looking for more softer fem touches? Perfumes, press on nails, makeup, feminine clothes that accent those curves, push up bras, lip gloss, body glitter, skirts, sweater dresses or sundresses, frilly socks/stockings, panty hose, some cute shoes, some jewelry, a cute purse or backpack etc

    • Qokko

      313d

      wow thank you for all the info!!! My issue is with braletts is that I feel like they don't pronounciate the breast region enough. Also the laces on the bras show a bit too much through the shirts and it makes me uncomfortable

    • Qokko

      313d

      do you think a wireless bra would suffice instead?

      • bomb

        313d

        totally!

      • KittyKatKuo

        312d

        wireless bras would do just fine! Strapless bras would as well, it's all about your comfort levels and what makes you feel good. If something is a bit too far no worries there's so many other options, wireless is a definite option as there's tons of options. There's also clear straps for bras you can put on or take off some bras. There's even sticky bra pads you can use in place of a bra to give you that "lift" to give you more of a chest without a bra. I've seen them sold on Amazon etc and seen them work for people and they are reusable. This could be a good idea as you could just pull em off at will if your not feeling it or slip them on as it's rather easy.

  • WallyWasTaken2

    313d

    Skirts or dresses that you can spin in! Immediate wave of euphoria.

  • bomb

    313d

    hair bows or jewelry, bras make such a difference, I know there’s this company that makes bras in all sizes and they’re super cute. the business also supports the lgbtq community which is cool…can’t remember the name tho…picking flowers or making a daisy chain, hanging out with my girl pals, dresses, skirts, glitter, doing my hair or makeup, the mall

  • salt

    312d

    This is a great post! One of my partners is trans fem and wants to know how to be more feminine cause it makes her so damn happy. Totally not going to use this advice to give gifts lmao

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