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I don't know what to say to my partner. He's booked a cat cafe up for next weekend, but that's the only reason I'm going to see him. I don't feel love towards him, just frustration. I don't want to be with him anymore but I would like to still be friends. I don't want to handle his actions afterwards because I know what he's like towards them. His ex of a month broke up with him and he decided to drink a whole bottle of whiskey. I just can't handle him as a person anymore because I'm done parenting in a relationship when he's literally like a lost puppy. He says he's happy all the time because he has me but he hasn't listened to me about the issues I have. I just don't feel like a relationship is for me. I'm not emotionally or physically ready for a relationship and all he does is push me and push me eventhough I say to stop.
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Get yourself out of that relationship and do something else. He sounds like a creep.
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I definitely think you should end things at the Cafe. It will be a place where you both have a comfort animal with the cats and it should soften the blow. But you need to be honest with him. A relationship just isn't what you're ready for right now. He's an adult, I presume, so you shouldn't have to be responsible for him or his actions after you decide to do what's best for you. He's not your child.
@LotusFlower That's a good idea. I know he's going to be annoyed as he's payed for a lodge for the weekend of my birthday but if it won't last, then I'm not worrying too much over it. He's 2 years older than me and I just can't see us lasting.
I know it's hard to think about but what he does after isn't your fault. I'm sure he will try to play you and say things to make you stay but stand strong. You deserve to be happy and treated right. Always put yourself first.
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@Exrs I know he will try and buy me things, he's done that in the whole relationship to keep me. I've had enough of it, eventhough it can be an expression of love,the way he puts it is very suspicious. Like buying me a Yankee candle set, Headphones for the gym, Lego, Necklace, Promise ring...more than that in such a short time. I just wanted to see him for him, not this smothering. He physically smothers me too. He knows I'm very off with physical affection but does it anyway. A few times head planted into his chest and I can't breathe...
@TheOnlySneezles yeah I hate being touched and crowded. My bf does that too.
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