Questioning My Sexuality: Seeking Advice

Hello! I refers to myself as queer until late last year when I came out as a lesbian. I think it’s so tricky to figure out and making that change. Just trust your gut and remember that nothing is permanent and if it changes in the future that is okay! ❤️

I still don't know what I am, I just don't focus on it. For me my sexuality isn't important I don't need a label for it. I date who I want and figure it out. I think I'm a lesbian, bi, demi, or straight. I have sexual ocd which makes it hard to know for sure but as long as you're happy with the person you're with labels shouldn't matter too much.

hiya :) i have been in the exact same situation you are countless times- going back and forth between two different labels and it’s hard ! in my own experience i found that just giving myself time is what i needed to make a decision, i made notes on how consistent my attraction to different people and genders was, spoke to friends and then looked at my own past present relationships and based my decision on that. i know some people (like myself) really like having a label to fit under but remember that if you’re struggling it’s always ok to not label yourself for a while and just be yourself <3 hope that helps :)