Alyh

32d

I'm anxious as I been asked in a date by a girl 😳 I've been with my now bf for over 2 years so idk how to do this all again 😅 but he is also going on a date next with with a coworker he likes.

BRUH WHAT SHOULD I DO

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Anxiety (Including GAD)

Acute Anxiety

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  • Cyprus87

    32d

    Why are you dating other people if you’re in a relationship?

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    • Alyh

      32d

      because we are poly?

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      • Jeremywh

        32d

        then why are you stressed?

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      • Cyprus87

        32d

        How do you keep up with so many partners? I can barely handle one😂

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      • Lander

        32d

        I get that you're stressed, I would be too. I don't quite know or understand how polyamory works, but I would just discuss with everyone involved I guess?

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  • mossol

    32d

    You should try talking to your bf about it. Conversation usually helps a lot.

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    • Alyh

      32d

      we all talked already, thank you for your advice tho.. I'm just anxious because I'm worried no one ever likes me and I feel she might not like me as well

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      • mossol

        32d

        I think your just underestimating yourself and should go on the date. If you do end up going please update me.

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  • AmvenomTomyself

    32d

    That first date is always a bit anxiety-inducing. But as long as the connection is there (& I'm sure it is), it'll get easier, the longer you talk in person. 😊 That initial meeting usually feels like going down the drop-off on average roller coaster, but once the conversations start, it's a lot easier. Then you get to gush all about it, once you get home! 🥰🥰 Best part, imho 😁

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    • Alyh

      31d

      we are going to a gaming cafe so it's so kewl!

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      • AmvenomTomyself

        31d

        😁💕 That sounds so fun! Also, a place like that definitely takes the pressure off; excellent first date choice! 👍🏽🥰

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  • MooMin

    31d

    honestly just talk to your partner/partners, personally i think if you communicate you will be okay, don’t get me wrong you may still be a bundle of nerves but you will be okay, the person that’s asked you out on a date has obvs seen you for you and like you that way, i would say fudge it and go have fun

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