I have an online friend who is going through a really rough time... they ended up in the hospital this morning because their sibling found them in time... I want to help, but they say the only way I can help them is to help them with a certain "problem", but I promised myself that I wouldn't do anything sexual until I found the person I would spend my life with. I'm afraid they will hurt themselves again and I can't stop them... but I also feel like I'm being manipulated. they had their sibling chat with me, but how am I supposed to know whether it is actually their sibling or not? I have no idea what to do or what to believe.


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  • mmxyfield


    Wow i’m so sorry that’s happening to you. Do not do anything you’re not comfortable with, if they know you’re not comfortable then that’s coercion and manipulation. The best thing to do would be to cut all ties with this person, as hard as that may be.

    • doglover2899


      I've thought about that.. but what if it's all true and he ends up killing himself? I don't know if I could live with myself knowing I could have stopped it..

  • MichealB


    Their mental health isn't your responsibility. If thats really an issue for them they can have a one night stand with someone, their are a bunch of apps for it. I know it's hard to be in that situation and I really feel for you but you should put yourself first. Even if you don't cut them out entirely take care of you and your boundaries first.

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