Parents Invading My Privacy While I'm Sick

I didn’t even read everything and I related too hard so I had to stop and comment. I was resided by a parent with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and a lot of this garbage happened to me. “We’ll I’m just trying to help, if you deny my help you must not want it so I won’t offer it again.” Then I explain I appreciate their help but it would be counterproductive in that moment and I get “well I guess I’m just a shitty parent you shouldn’t ever come to me then.” And they make themselves the victims because yours and their emotions are your fault. Idk if it’s the exact same situation but just knowing that my mom had it made her much easier to deal with. If you need any help or wanna know more about it my dms are open.

Sounds like your mom has her hands tight around your dad's balls if you ask me. Coming from the friend who was in worse situations that had friends who felt uncomfortable complaining, you have every right to be upset about shitty things. I talked about my issues to my best friend every day. Years later I found out things her dad was doing to her. I guess I feel guilty about not knowing? Her dad was super awesome and I told her i wish he was my dad. I wish people complained to me more, humans love shared pain lmao. Your friends are your friends. They care about you, they want to make sure your okay, they want to be there for you in rough times like you are for them. I really hope you can get out of your living situation. This is cheesy and dumb but it does get better. Just takes a lot of work to get there. So be responsible for all of yourself. Financially, academically, physically, emotionally, spiritually, all the ally's. Rooting for you 💕

Why would she want to look in your mouth? Are you hoarding pills? That's just weird. Although you were comfortable, I would have just done it to make her happy and leave. In my family if my mom asked, no matter my age, I must do it. So thats why I'd just have done it.

Living with my parents was also a huge source of my anxiety. They would trigger me and I would react! Then they'd get mad! It wasn't until I started my healing journey and moved out was I able to even look at them without crying or getting angry. Took many years, but was worth it. I wish you the best of luck!

Don't downplay your own problems because you think yours are less; problems are problems, and we all have them. I'm so sorry your parents are being this way. :( Unfortunately, I think it comes from a very ignorant place, as they cannot put themselves in your shoes long enough to understand you. I also think it comes from their own fears: "I can't fix this for her, I can't make this better for her, I don't know how to be there for her". These aren't excuses or justifications, and by no means should you be treated that way. And your Dad blaming you for your mother's behavior? That's gaslighting, and your mother is a grown ass woman who can control her reactions to being told, "no". I'm hoping your parents will come around -- my parents weren't the greatest in the very beginning of my journey, and my mom is now one of best friends and part of my support system (my father passed). Here's to better support for you in the future ❤️