Chronic Neck Pain and Frustration with Doctors

I strained my neck about 8 years ago, and a couple years after I started having my neck go into spasm and be incredibly painful off and on with increasing frequency. Advil and Aleve barely touch it. I eventually went to the chiropractor, I have lordosis, my neck is basically completely straight and not curved. It was like $1500 to go for a couple months. That alleviated the frequency of spasm for a number of months and then I went to the chiropractor again when I couldn't handle it anymore, rinse and repeat. Doc doesn't take any of this seriously, just do some stretching. My psychiatrist was the only one willing to give me muscle relaxers, after dealing with this - missing work, shutting down for a day - for like 5 years. I take a half and I'm able to recover in about an hour, and even make it to work. GP wouldn't re-up this year. I'm only 28. I tried acupuncture this week, instead of trying a follow up with PT, seemed to help some. Ice sometimes helps some. I just have to baby it, and try to keep my stress and tension down. 1/10 chance I just wake up having aggravated it.