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Wintie

711d

I talked to my person today, and it sucked a lot. I am unsure what to say right now because he's really different at the moment. I know he's trying to follow God and stuff. Not a big problem but it just ticked me off that there was no reason to be sad because our Father is good. I agree with the last part but I did not agree about having no reason to be sad. it was very weird imo. Like neglecting how I feel...? This sounds horrible but I really just wanted him to leave me alone after saying things like that. Like how am I supposed to respond???? It's just weird to me, I guess. I told him I have no one to talk to... and he said I could just send him paragraphs, then I responded, "You don't even get back to me." because it was true. Why would I waste my time for not a reply in days or weeks, I personally don't have time for that. He got a lil' pissed off and told me "I don't have to talk to you 24/7". Which is absolutely valid, I don't expect him to talk to me 24/7, but I ain't gonna send him a paragraph if he doesn't get back to me in weeks though. Maybe I'm being hard, but I get so annoyed by this stuff.

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    • Emy4

      711d

      If he's neglecting how you feel and making you feel bad I think the best thing to do would be to give him space and while your doing that self reflect and determine if he's the right person for you after you give him time and he still doesn't want to change then it might be best to move on but relationships are tough just make sure your happy.

    • Wintie

      711d

      I plan on taking care of myself right now. He really did piss me off. It just rubbed me the wrong way when I explained why I was upset, and just kept saying "There's no reason to be sad. God is here." I get that but– that doesn't make me feel better, and that just makes me upset more than anything because he is avoiding the subject. I think the best thing for me as of right now.. I need some space from him, and take care of myself. I need some TLC time. :)

    • Emy4

      711d

      If he's neglecting how you feel and making you feel bad I think the best thing to do would be to give him space and while your doing that self reflect and determine if he's the right person for you after you give him time and he still doesn't want to change then it might be best to move on but relationships are tough just make sure your happy.

    • Mr.FluffyFox918

      711d

      He probably doesn’t appreciate you all the way. He probably has problems of himself.

      • Wintie

        711d

        @Mr.FluffyFox918 He probably does tbh. It's like he changed his whole personality, and it's just frustrating..? It's okay to change, but I don't think it's okay to force yourself to be someone else.

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