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kaykaybear

593d

yknow, I wish people weren't so quick to judge and assume that I don't put forth enough effort into things. I've been in this singing group for awhile now and last year my anxiety would literally take over so bad to the point I'd miss practices very frequently because I would dissociate. the only thing that helped was being in my space (my room and home In general). I've gotten a lot better with attendance and day to day life but because of my absence last year after constantly trying to explain my mental health, they now hold things over my head and talk about me like I'm going to miss and say that I don't care about to the group or give it much importance. it sucks because it's so exhausting explaining myself to those who claim to understand but talk bad about me behind my back or in many instances have said rude remarks to my face. not only that but I have a life outside of this group as well and more family matters to attend to. there are things I have to prioritize and unfortunately I'm human and things come up out of the blue. it just sucks and makes me feel like a bad person even though anxiety is not something I could control at the time... I have been learning to manage a lot better though. Does anyone else deal with this problem no matter how hard they have tried to explain themselves and people claim to understand ?

    • v.nessa2708

      593d

      I've experienced something a little similar, a couple years back and now, I've been struggling with my weight and self image because of remarks my relatives have made towards me and it has caused me to constantly starve my self or I'd only eat small portions of salads. Some days I'd only consume about 100 calories. I've finally been able to start appreciating myself and balance my meals properly, and when I was about to serve myself pasta earlier, my cousin and brother said "I thought you only ate salads. You can't eat this because it's not "grass" and my brother took the spoon before I could grab it and held it away from me

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