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okay so for several months now, I've been kinda depressed because my friend that I thought was my first close friend and I trusted them...Well they all of a sudden blocked me on social media and didn't give me an answer why. It sucks because they're one of my coworkers and it hurts whenever I see them saying hi to random coworkers and then completely ignoring me. I have some rough nights sometimes and feel embarrassingly alone. I'm happily married and I love my life. But this is difficult to get over. Anyone else going through this?
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@Kadair Thanks! It did hurt for sure and still kinda does at times. But knowing that the person was fake all along, I think it will be easier to let things go.
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Yes I have! I use to be a girl scout leader and I worked side by side with a friend I thought! Anyway she quit girl scouts and got a job later with a lawyers office. Ever since then she suddenly deleted me on social media. Her meaning behind it, "I was getting rid of all the fake people in my life! " like really, I have never done anything to her. Anyway, at least you know who this person really is. Don't worry about it. Yeah it hurt a lot for me, as I know you are hurt also! But now you know how they really are. If they can't say something about what happened to your face about why then it isn't worth the trouble. That is my view point.
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@Amimae just know I am here if you ever need to talk!
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I've been through that before, and it's hard, but it's important to understand that what they did was hurtful. As easy as it can be to blame ourselves, it's important to know that you are loved and deserving of love, even if someone you knew stops talking with you.
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Yeah I agree just go up to them and confront them. Ask why they’re not taking to you anymore .
@Foxlover Yeahhh I would but like I said the person is toxic. So it's not worth it now.
I feel you. I can relate because I realized that my best friend is toxic earlier this year. I had to stop talking to her for my own peace of mind. This is going to be hard for you to hear, but you don’t need an answer as to why they blocked you. It could be a possibility that you’re better off without them.
@Shan.Shan No I'm glad you told me that. I am better off without them, true. 🙌
Social media is such a damn trap. It makes being truly social a big anxiety filled event and ruins lives/happiness. I got rid of all my socials 3 years ago and I haven't looked back! (I dot consider this social media, cuz we truly help each other). I hope you truly find happiness that you deserve!
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@Dancwithm3 Yeah I barely use social media for social media purposes now. I just post artwork on it and occasionally update people that I know care about me and my life.
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OH MY GOSH YES!!! THIS HAD HAPPEND TO ME MULITPLE TIMES! But my experience was a little different, they ghosted me and spread rumors about me that obviously weren't true. Again mulitple times. I was so heartbroken everytime. Goes to show that age doesn't matter with these kinds of people. They will do this no matter what age they are. And it sucks it really does! I didn't have any friends for years. People will come and go out of your life. It's okay that that happens. Some people will never be permitted in your life. It's best to come to terms and move on. And then let people in your life again when your ready.
@shoe Thank you! I almost got emotional reading that. I will do my best to move on from this.
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