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stormagadon

546d

so I'm kinda stuck. my husband and I are not in an ok place. a few moths ago I had a drunkin mental snap and told my husband I wanted a divorce, no longer wanted to have kids with him and that I haven't been happy in about 8 years. for some context we've been married 8 years and together 10 years almost. we tried to work things our, but it's not working. he says he'll change and do all the things he should be doing, but we've been in the same never ending cycle of being unhappy. I've stopped drinking since that night and it seems things are getting worse. what do I do?

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    • bambipony

      545d

      Well definitely figure this stuff out before having kids together, that will just open up a whole van of worms. I recommend couples therapy to make it more clear if the relationship can be saved or not. If you aren't compatible you aren't compatible, doesn't do any good to force yourselves to stay together and be miserable

    • bambipony

      545d

      Well definitely figure this stuff out before having kids together, that will just open up a whole van of worms. I recommend couples therapy to make it more clear if the relationship can be saved or not. If you aren't compatible you aren't compatible, doesn't do any good to force yourselves to stay together and be miserable

    • Obs

      546d

      I can't help you unless you tell me what happened

      • stormagadon

        545d

        @Obs so I got really drunk and let about 10 years worth of frustration out in one go.

    • busy_bee

      546d

      Are either of you in therapy?

      • stormagadon

        546d

        @busy_bee no. We should be though. He's ex navy and I'm an army brat.

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