The urge to cut off all your hair

my hair sucks right now. wonder if I should shave it before I start my new job haha

Generally whe I feel this way its about gender dysphoria, long hair doesn't feel right bc in current western culture it typically means "girl" and that's not who I am so I feel like it doesn't fit me and get dysphoria about it. It's a shame though because in my actual culture cutting hair is a sacred thing only meant as a ritual/mourning for tragedy so long hair is seen as not only unisex but important. Although this, and hair dye, is incredibly common for people who have suffered from trauma because it makes for a safe and temporary way to take back your own body, especially if it would upset your former abuser(s) so it is a kind of symbolistic freedom!

Yes! And get my nose piercing!

It feels so Freeing

I did it once but cause my hair was so knotted it looked like I had bad dreads and I was pregnant too but I mean if that's how you wanna feel free go for it I will say don't head bang without hair cause you forget you ain't got it anymore and you might fall over also if you're prone to headaches then I'm telling you no hair makes less pressure so no headaches caused by your hair lol

Oh my god yes I wanted to shave my head this morning because my hair just felt *wrong* no matter what I tried to do with it