Still Angry Years After Escaping Abuser(s)?

My abuser also hurt my best friend, worse than he did me. Im no longer angry about what he did to me - although I'm still processing the trauma, but the anger i have for what he did to my best friend.... It will last forever.

hi! i left my abuser roughly two years ago and for me, the anger never STOPS, but it does settle down. when i think back to my abuse, i’m still angry— but not so much that it consumes me. just remember that everyone’s experiences are different. some people primarily feel sadness, and some people primarily feel anger— but regardless of what you’re feeling, how much you’re feeling it, or how often you feel it, your emotions are still valid.

My abuser has been dead for over ten years, and I had escaped long before that, and I am still angry when I think of them. I think as long as the hurt remains, the anger will too. And I don't know that I will ever be able to forgive. But I am hopeful that as healing happens for me, the strong painful emotions will fade.

One day this will pass. You have every right to be angry. You feel the way you do for a reason. Hugs love. ☮💙🖤💜🌟🕯

I don't really think that it ever stops, you were hurt. You deserve to be angry.

100% feel this