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Kerstion

612d

am I'm the only one who gets afraid to speak up in an argument and just stay there silent or when there family activities being planned out and everyone's opinion gets asked but all I say is I'm ok with whatever you guys are? am I being an asshole or is it something else please someone help me understand my own conditions 🥺😔

    • Lunarr

      612d

      I get like that sometimes! It's definitely people pleasing behavior for me and it might be for you, too. When I was younger I felt like I had to be the positive, neutral party in the house because my mom and older brother always got heated very quickly. This usually manifests into me desperately not wanting to create any tension and therefore not getting involved or taking a strong stance. I've been working on unlearning it lately and am getting better at stating my needs and opinions. Not sure if it's a similar situation for you or not but I can assure you that you're not an asshole for experiencing symptoms of your anxiety. You're not alone and I hope this makes you feel a bit better 😊

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