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Pain_Warrior89

437d

i suppose this is abit of a lonley rant: im Feeling so lonley. Ive been single 4years now, my ex was abusive and altho he was 12years older he acted like a child. But I really miss the cuddles, having sombody to give attention to and spoil, the flirty essence. had a brief long distance 'almost relationship' after him and the morning and night texts. chatting till we were half asleep. I just miss it all alot. Dating sites aren't my thing. just feel incredibly alone *sigh*

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    • silverwolf69

      436d

      @Pain_Warrior89 oh no sweetheart I'm so sorry to hear this why is life so hard 😢 😞 😔 all the time for some of us sending massive hugs and love your way sweetheart xx

    • AnxietyQueen83

      435d

      I found staying super busy helps get rid of that lonely feeling. Joining women's groups at church. Volunteering at soup kitchens ect. 💕

      • Pain_Warrior89

        435d

        @AnxietyQueen83 I can't. My pain is so high. I popped out for 20min yesterday and I'm still paying for it today. I have no concentration

        • silverwolf69

          435d

          @Pain_Warrior89 you need to do little but often I find that if I am more active my fibromyalgia is better or better than sitting around all day like I am at the min and put on 5st I am.just in the process of trying to lose it again I put it on after my hysterectomy 2019 I lost 5st before my op and another stone when they removed my womb my surgeon said he had never seen a womb so big lol with that and lots of large fibroids I went down to 14st I was so happy for a change then stuff happened and I fell into a deep depression again and put it all back on and more I hope you feel better real soon sending healing and gentle hugs xx

    • silverwolf69

      436d

      Oh bless you I know that feeling all too well my ex was the same been divorced almost 30yrs now and he still gives me grief fgs I just laugh at him now and his kids also realise that I was not lying about him as they have had the same from him even my grandkids he is the worst . I have been on my own for 21yrs now since my last partner killed himself at just 26yrs old I have gotten in a relationship since and to be honest I don't think I ever will 😥😥😥😥 but we all different I mean I'm 54 yrs on the 26th Jan so I'm past all that lol xx

      • Pain_Warrior89

        436d

        @silverwolf69 your never past it.i get grief from my ex even tho he's engaged to his third wife. I wasn't lucky enough to have kids and now I can't have kids. I know I'd struggle to trust sombody again

        • silverwolf69

          436d

          @Pain_Warrior89 oh no sweetheart I'm so sorry to hear this why is life so hard 😢 😞 😔 all the time for some of us sending massive hugs and love your way sweetheart xx

    • SecondChance

      436d

      Hey I know a dude who's single 🙃 I could set up an introduction😁 Take care friend ❤️❤️❤️

      • Pain_Warrior89

        436d

        @SecondChance ha go ahead

    • unicorn

      436d

      By no means is this a replacement for a relationship, but I’ve felt very isolated and lonely over the past few years as I have struggled with my mental health. A year ago, though, I was in a very dark place, and I decided to rescue a dog to be emotional support animal in an effort to feel less isolated and have some purpose, and she has been amazing for me. It can take a little more effort to arrange things with housing and such, but I’ve felt like it’s been super worth it for me. I don’t know if you’re in the place to have an animal, but getting a cat or a dog or a bunny or another little friend you can cuddle with and care for and that will give you unconditional love might help you feel less lonely.

      • unicorn

        436d

        @unicorn And it could also benefit your mental health in other ways

        • Pain_Warrior89

          436d

          @unicorn I do have a dog she's my reason I keep going

    • 1_lucky_gma

      437d

      Divorced my narcissistic abusive ex 10 years ago. I feel severely alone at times but can't bring myself to even consider another relationship. My trust issues would never let me.

    • ChloeMae

      437d

      I feel that too & I feel like nowadays it’s so hard meeting people. Bar scene you won’t find good potential men & dating websites are so much work like I feel like it’s hard to know whether or not you truly vibe with someone through a dating website. & going on all these dates is exhausting. I’ve been just surrounding myself around good friends & it helps with the loneliness. But I still miss havin a significant other or that person to talk with all the time. So I feel u on that!

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