(idk what ot put this under) I use xe/xem pronouns and currently I identify as nonbinary but im questioning it right now so all I know is that I dont match with my perfered pronouns and gender. i feel lile my gender isnt matched by any of the genders i have read. I'm sorta thinking about gender fluid but it doesnt quite fit because I go between nonbinary, agender, and male. I'm so confused please help..
its currently 1:18am and I'm questioning my gender..haha I love being an indesisive little crybaby đ (thats a joke)
First of all, I feel like a lot of people put too much pressure on finding the perfect label. It seems like you have an understanding of who you are, you just don't know the word for it. I think based on what you said demiboy might work? There's also a thing called Genderfaun which is like genderfluid but without any female aligning genders.
Going off this,I totally agree thereâs too much pressure. Itâs just not possible to fit an entire experience of gender in a single word, or a group of pronouns. Itâs not like youâre being timed on how long it takes for you to work out what feels right- living authentically isnât a process with an end goal. Itâs every day that you choose to do things for yourself.
I second the people saying genderfaun! I'm the same way, and I use he/him or they/them pronouns, and am okay with ey/em pronouns as well. I love genderfae and genderfaun as micro labels, because they work so well for people who have a fluid gender, but that don't experience masc or fem genders, respectively.
I think transmasculine and genderfluid could explain that to other people! You donât have to be specific. Try things out until something feels right, and donât expect that it will stay feeling right forever :) isnât it beautiful that we choose for ourselves instead of feeling constrained to arbitrary standards?
Demiboy, genderfaun, transmasculine, and gender queer all work well for what you described! Just remember not to get too wrapped up in labels, those are just for you to be able to best get the point across and have something to call yourself that feels comfortable it's not a test and it does not have to be perfect especially right away. If you find a better label later or realize something about yourself later that changes it that's okay too! Just keep in mind that any transition you pursue should be in the name of your own comfort and happiness and not based on how you or others expect those under your label to transition. Good luck!
Hi I use bigender (identify as more than one gender) and genderqueer (Google this as I can't explain it well). Though I do think you're genderqueer tho.
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(idk what ot put this under) I use xe/xem pronouns and currently I identify as nonbinary but im questioning it right now so all I know is that I dont match with my perfered pronouns and gender. i feel lile my gender isnt matched by any of the genders i have read. I'm sorta thinking about gender fluid but it doesnt quite fit because I go between nonbinary, agender, and male. I'm so confused please help..
its currently 1:18am and I'm questioning my gender..haha I love being an indesisive little crybaby đ
(thats a joke)
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