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XxAshxX

677d

(idk what ot put this under) I use xe/xem pronouns and currently I identify as nonbinary but im questioning it right now so all I know is that I dont match with my perfered pronouns and gender. i feel lile my gender isnt matched by any of the genders i have read. I'm sorta thinking about gender fluid but it doesnt quite fit because I go between nonbinary, agender, and male. I'm so confused please help.. its currently 1:18am and I'm questioning my gender..haha I love being an indesisive little crybaby 😍 (thats a joke)

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    • Ren.exe

      669d

      Genderfluid can be being fluid between nonbinary genders too. It doesn't have to be fluid between woman and man.

    • Ren.exe

      669d

      Genderfluid can be being fluid between nonbinary genders too. It doesn't have to be fluid between woman and man.

    • darkstarrynight

      669d

      Hi I use bigender (identify as more than one gender) and genderqueer (Google this as I can't explain it well). Though I do think you're genderqueer tho.

    • AnimalBoy

      670d

      Demiboy, genderfaun, transmasculine, and gender queer all work well for what you described! Just remember not to get too wrapped up in labels, those are just for you to be able to best get the point across and have something to call yourself that feels comfortable it's not a test and it does not have to be perfect especially right away. If you find a better label later or realize something about yourself later that changes it that's okay too! Just keep in mind that any transition you pursue should be in the name of your own comfort and happiness and not based on how you or others expect those under your label to transition. Good luck!

    • EatenByWormy

      670d

      I think transmasculine and genderfluid could explain that to other people! You don’t have to be specific. Try things out until something feels right, and don’t expect that it will stay feeling right forever :) isn’t it beautiful that we choose for ourselves instead of feeling constrained to arbitrary standards?

    • AMWes

      676d

      I second the people saying genderfaun! I'm the same way, and I use he/him or they/them pronouns, and am okay with ey/em pronouns as well. I love genderfae and genderfaun as micro labels, because they work so well for people who have a fluid gender, but that don't experience masc or fem genders, respectively.

    • kisseyangel

      677d

      I so agree with the last person just be and don't worry about a label

    • andyiguess

      677d

      First of all, I feel like a lot of people put too much pressure on finding the perfect label. It seems like you have an understanding of who you are, you just don't know the word for it. I think based on what you said demiboy might work? There's also a thing called Genderfaun which is like genderfluid but without any female aligning genders.

      • EatenByWormy

        670d

        @andyiguess Going off this,I totally agree there’s too much pressure. It’s just not possible to fit an entire experience of gender in a single word, or a group of pronouns. It’s not like you’re being timed on how long it takes for you to work out what feels right- living authentically isn’t a process with an end goal. It’s every day that you choose to do things for yourself.

      • XxAshxX

        677d

        @andyiguess yea i was also sorta thonking demiboy. I'll look into genderfaun, tysm❤️

        • XxAshxX

          677d

          @XxAshxX I was thinking nobody was going to respond so thank you!!

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