Abusive husband cheated on me and got his ex and me pregnant

Do you have friends who would take you in? Maybe a women’s shelter could be a place for you? I’m sorry this is happening to you. People like that don’t deserve people like you. You deserve so much more. Do you think your mother could pay first months rent on an apartment for you? Help you get on your feet? I hope maybe one of these suggestions help you. Stay strong, my friend.

I know how hard it seems to get out of that sort of situation when you're in it ✋I've been there. So the best advice I'll give you is stop focusing on him or about leaving him. But focus on you. Focus on falling in love with yourself. Do the things you love. Even the little things. Like the way you like your coffee or the way you like your hair or playing your favorite music. Whatever it is, find those things that give you a sense of self. Everything else will fall into place. Including how to handle a man that disrespects you. Finding your self love is like building a house. It's the foundation for all other relationships in your life. 💕

Leave. They sounds so abusive and manipulative. They won’t give you the real support you need. You don’t deserve to go through the horrible things they will continue to put you though. Please take care of yourself. There are resources for unplanned pregnancies and domestic violence. Shelters are out there and there are people willing to help

Message me if you ever need or want to talk or just someone to listen! I was in an abusive relationship with a narcissist as well. I ended up moving states, blocking every person I ever met through him/in that state, and started fresh. You are so strong ❤️

Leave fast, pray. I’ve gone to ACA for five years and got a lot of love and support. Even though my narcissistic wife did not try to hit me she was still abusive. 34 years ago I got sober in a different 12 step program and I know if you try hard kind loving people will support you through this process. The happiest years of your life are in front of you.

LEAVE

you can find resources for people in abusive relationships at your local DHS office