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Crystalia

677d

Is harm reduction instead of completely stopping harm sometimes a valid option? I've heard it talked about before, and I want to know more. Ive heard people say it's an excuse to not get better, but it honestly stresses me out so much more to just completely stop all harm. It will literally consume my thoughts and keep me from functioning. But self-inflicted harm has such a bad reputation, and I don't want people to think less of me. If anyone knows anything about the topic of harm reduction, I'd like to know more.

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    • SourLemons

      663d

      @Jpenn552 sorry about your relationship. if you ever wanna chat about this recovery journey, hit me up. sending hugs ♡

    • SourLemons

      665d

      gosh... i asked myself this question so much, too. i recently relapsed after years of staying away from self-harm, and man did it come back hard. i might try this again, staving off the urges in small steps and not in one fell swoop. cheering for you from afar.

      • Jpenn552

        664d

        @SourLemons 🤗yup. I had a good several years without any problems and then got in a long-term toxic relationship that sent me back. I'm just now recovering again

        • SourLemons

          663d

          @Jpenn552 sorry about your relationship. if you ever wanna chat about this recovery journey, hit me up. sending hugs ♡

    • gatoraid

      666d

      !! Harm reduction is in no way an excuse, self harm is an addiction, like cigarettes, you don't see people calling nicotine patches an excuse. It's people who don't understand who'll say shit like that, they do not care and just want to make others feel worse. It's 100% a valid option, you could put yourself in more danger by trying to stop fully and suddenly. Recovery is not linear, we all have our own paths & as long as it works for you its what's best! Good luck!! 🐛

    • E_belli

      668d

      Harm reduction is a good idea and important if you still engage. Step 1! Basically, it means just making sure what you do is safe and you're taking care of yourself the best you can. Like tending appropriately to your wounds, making sure your tool isn't contaminated/dirty. Once you can get ahold of that it is helpful. The next thing I find to be helpful and important is to find replacement behaviors. Because you SH to cope and taking the away, while good in the long run, leaves you unable to cope. So finding something that you can do instead of SH. That will give you a leg up/good start to recovery if stopping is ever an end goal. Good luck dear! You're taking the right steps, always keep fighting.

    • andyiguess

      676d

      I think that harm reduction is a step in the right direction! It's difficult to try to stop altogether because it will end up consuming your thoughts like you said. Take baby steps. You're doing great :)

      • Crystalia

        676d

        @andyiguess thank you! I really appreciate that you mentioned that it's a process. I guess I've always thought about it as all-or-nothing.

    • Jpenn552

      677d

      Well it is an addiction, so I guess it'd be like smoking or drinking less. 🤔

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