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my husband and I both work full time. he comes home everyday exhausted and acts like talking to me and just spending time with him after a long day takes all the rest of his energy (small comments like "you're so needy"). tonight he just go upstairs, barely says 2 words to me and falls asleep. I'm trying to be sympathetic, but I feel like I'm going crazy just for having emotional needs. is this normal? do I just need to get over it?

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    • Hummingbird

      554d

      Sick and tired of being sick and tired!

    • Morticiasavage

      554d

      My boyfriend is the same way when he gets home this is normal so your not crazy lol my boyfriend makes a plan with me on a day we can hangout together maybe that can help you guys šŸ™‚

    • Hummingbird

      554d

      Sick and tired of being sick and tired!

    • Hummingbird

      554d

      Youā€™re not going crazy! Thatā€™s not normal like how can these men think we are invisible! I mean just if he would give just a little attention to you it would go a long way be careful most anxiety is caused by our needs not being met and trust I know I live thisšŸ„²

      • MindPill

        554d

        @Hummingbird yes exactly! At the same time though my anxiety is SKY HIGH because I also realize he has needs like sleep - but part of me is also like why are you in a marriage if I'm essentially at this point a roommate+ sex?

        • Hummingbird

          554d

          @MindPill were only someone when they feel like it šŸ˜žand itā€™s ridiculous already

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