Okay? How did u guys break up. I'm a girl btw

so he was emotionally and mentally abusive I didn't realize until I told my mother and my therapists about it his mother treated me the same way he did she also liked to threaten to beat me up and my feoncé would like to threaten to punch menin the face and whenever he got mad at me he would raise his hand to me but neither of them hit me. But besides the point I don't really know how to break up with people I get scared so everytime I tried to I couldn't do it so I remembered when my mom went to the shelter for women that got or get abused I remembered that one of the people that worked their was talking to someone saying something about it doesn't always work but you can make yourself as boring as possible to make the man grow bored of you and not want you anymore they might end up cheating before they break up with you. So I did exactly that I became super boreing and once in a while I would slip up and stand up for myself but it still worked I did this before my mom or therapist said anything I honestly self-consciously related this. But after talking to my mom and therapist I realized that that's exactly what I was doing.

Stupid speech to text it was supposed to say self-consciously did this but my sister was talking in the background