Knotless1133

78d

I’m a little sad. I’m celebrating my sweet 16 tm. My outfits came on time, they all fit, and I’m going to look absolutely beautiful. I spent 3 days straight pampering myself. A lot of people can’t make it. Some family friends, friends, and family. I always imaged a whole bunch of people coming out to celebrate my sweet 16. It was around 40 people and now it’s pushing 25. I’m grateful for the people who are attending, but it still makes me sad for the people who can’t. None the less, it will also be my ex and I 5 month anniversary (we broke up 2 weeks ago but still are in contact). It makes me feel not a priority and not cared about. Maybe I’m just overthinking idk.

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  • Knotless1133

    78d

    Also my parents already paid almost $300 for bowling. You have to pay upfront and we got 4 lanes for 24 people. Now there’s only a total of 14 people bowling. I feel so bad now :(

  • SongbirdQueen01

    78d

    Im so sorry. I know how it feels like to not feel cared about. I'm here is you need to talk

    • SongbirdQueen01

      78d

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    • Knotless1133

      78d

      thank you so much it means a lot. It’s hard especially when it’s your special day and people can’t show up especially when it’s for bs reasons. Maybe I’m not understanding but my one friend said he couldn’t come because he has a meet at 6:30 am. He said he would be too tired even tho the dinner doesn’t start until 5:30pm.

      • SongbirdQueen01

        78d

        I'm turning 23 tomorrow and I am just chilling until the evening

  • Mafuyu

    78d

    I’m sorry that you’re feeling that way. :( I hope you’re still able to have a great birthday nonetheless!! It’s not about how many people come. It’s the same as friends; Yeah you can have hundreds of friends, but you really only need one or two good ones. Yeah it would be nice if 40 people showed up, but as long as the 14 that are coming have fun and you all have a great time that’s all that matters! I hope you’re able to start feeling better! Happy early birthday!!💕🎉🎂🥳🎊

    • Knotless1133

      78d

      thank youu soo much ❤️❤️❤️. You’re right. I need to honor the people that are coming and make sure that we all have fun. I think this does kind of bring out who I really need in my life.

  • jjharkan

    78d

    25 people is still a lot. I'm 41 and I've never had a birthday party, or gifts, after turning 5. I also don't want either one, and though some people at work know my birthday, i ask them not to post it or say anything.

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