MissWilwarin

19d

Please tell me I’m not the only person who thinks this:

I love the Pina Colada song EXCEPT when I think about what the lyrics are actually saying, it pisses me off. The song is about 2 people unhappy in a relationship, so they plan to cheat. But it just so happens the person they were going to cheat with is their partner. I told me mom and she doesn’t get it. The point is not that the person ended up being their partner; it’s that they were going to cheat. And what blows my mind is that they still stay together. If that happened to a friend, I’d tell them to end the relationship because if/when they become unhappy again, they’ll cheat and it probably won’t accidentally be with their partner.

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  • Sincerely

    19d

    I like the song, but didn't know what it was about. But let's be completely honest, most marriages are a farce nowadays anyways. People get married for all the wrong reasons.

    • MissWilwarin

      19d

      if you actually listen to the lyrics, you’ll know what it’s about.

      • Sincerely

        19d

        ok, and, so what?? What's your point?? Did you make the post because you wanted general conversation, or cuz you're just bitter and want something to talk shit about?? I didn't dispute what you said the lyrics were, I just said what I didn't know....🤨. But if you're down for shit talking, you can just have a good day, cuz I ain't got time for it. Everybody up here already knows that everybody is dealing with some bullshit. If you're trying to add to mine, we can dead this conversation right tf now. ✌🏾

  • Sincerely

    19d

    and on the other hand, I guess I have underlying feelings as well. I used to date a married man. They were separated when I met him, and she was nowhere in the picture for 7 months, then she moved back to our state. He's SO MISERABLE with her, they didn't know each other when they married. It was kinda on a whim, they were lonely when they met, so they got married. He's very unhappy, and basically came to me and used me for everything he needed. But then would tell everyone that it was her. 🤨🤨🤨🤨 But I see it so common, people getting married on a whim, so that's why I said that.... 🤔🤔🤔🤔 Idk, maybe I am bitter about it. I think people act a lot dumber than they are because it's easier, but then people like me end up paying the price, suffering, or having to do more. Smh. And it's frustrating because it seems like married people are so miserable that they cheat on each other, playing games with single people that are really out here looking for love. If they're going to cheat, at least cheat with other people that are in unhappy marriages.... Just my opinion, from the other side. No offense or anything.

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