Frustrated with My Fiancé's Low Sex Drive

He has a low sex drive, it's normal. And unfortunate for us partners who have higher sex drives cuz then we feel like they don't want us. But they want us and love us, they just dont desire sex as often as us

He says it’s because of stress and adhd. He says he has like 50 different thoughts going through his mind every 2 seconds and he says it’s so loud in his mind that he can’t focus on anything and he is getting irritated super easy because of it. He said he can’t enjoy sex because if he does perform the act his mind wonders off and he can’t concentrate and enjoy it, he can’t get horny. He did say that he will try therapy for his past trauma…

Could he be asexual? I am asexual! Some people just don't enjoy sex and it has nothing to do with how much they love you and are attracted to you. Try having a conversation with him about if he even wants sex, maybe. It could just be an activity he doesn't want to participate in, without meaning that he doesn't love you or isn't attracted to you.

Maybe he’s asexual! one type of asexuality is having romantic desires (like kissing, and dates) but not sexual desires. Best advice is to talk to him about how you feel 💕