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rorose

590d

why is no one texting me back? is this imposters syndrome orrrrr am i just a really cruel person. if thats what i need to accept to become someone different than i accept this about myself. i want to always have someone to talk to cus isolating myself taught me one thing…

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    • sabbymer

      590d

      Just ground yourself and remind yourself they are busy. Sometimes life will actually force you to do things for yourself by making nothing else work out. You gotta figure out how to make those moments for your benefit. I don't know how your self image is but I personally have been working on my inner work when I have alone time. It's very hard and most people do not do it because they avoid hearing bad things about themselves. Myself included. Growth is not meant to be easy and aesthetic. I hope they reach out soon though!

    • sabbymer

      590d

      Just ground yourself and remind yourself they are busy. Sometimes life will actually force you to do things for yourself by making nothing else work out. You gotta figure out how to make those moments for your benefit. I don't know how your self image is but I personally have been working on my inner work when I have alone time. It's very hard and most people do not do it because they avoid hearing bad things about themselves. Myself included. Growth is not meant to be easy and aesthetic. I hope they reach out soon though!

    • Venni3

      590d

      Happens to me frequently too & over time with a lot of paranoia & anxiety & all of the self-reflections as a result, it’s actually not about who I am but instead it’s moreso due to the weird new culture we are in as a society with social media. I genuinely do not understand it.

    • JingleP

      590d

      I don’t know you or the people you’re texting so really don’t know the actual answer, but it probably lies in between the two extremes of “it’s in my head” and “I’m a cruel person.” Be careful with black and white thinking. The answer can be complex and many reasons. Maybe you aren’t very good at connecting with the specific people you’re texting, or maybe they just aren’t very available for you right now. It can be tough to find people who actually want to consistently connect with you specifically. It doesn’t mean you’re just hopeless and unlovable. I hope you find some people who are happy with your strength and flaws. 💕

      • rorose

        590d

        @JingleP 👍 👍

    • She_She_Kay

      590d

      Why don't you try going to church? It helped me.

      • rorose

        590d

        @She_She_Kay currently in a young adult group there

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