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im splitting so hard on my best friend right now i dont want them to leave me but they will, they are abandoning me right now for someone i tried so hard to be better than, THEY TOLD ME I WAS BETTER and now they are fucking leaving me for a shit relationship with someone who is enabling their addiction and using it to trap them, i dont know what to do i cant change their mind i hate it i want to be better but they arent choosing me and it hurts so badly i cant breathe
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Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
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Been there with this one. It’s extremely hard to try to understand the whys but that’s simply the black and white thinking taking over. Try not to obsess about what happened and try to keep the grieving process healthy!
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I’ve been splitting a lot lately, I’m sorry you’re going through this too. I really hope this all works out and please keep yourself safe
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i felt this. sending you love ❤️
@Firey.pisces i will try:,) thank you!!
Honey, take a second and breathe, did they explicitly tell you they were leaving?
@Blixtavacci no:( but they told me they hated that person and now they suddenly have feelings for them days after they picked them apart to me, so nothing they say is solid including that they wouldnt leave me
@cinnaspaws Hun, I've been in that boat before and I know how you feel, I have BPD too and it fucks with my head in so many ways, including saying that people I care about are leaving. I know it's hard beyond words, but they aren't going to leave you, will they talk to you less? Honestly yes, but that's only due to the relationship, but they aren't going to leave you, the most you can do is be there for them and slowly start exposing their flaws, I was in a really abusive relationship and my best friend had to slowly pull us apart, and you know what? Me and my best friend have been extremely close ever since. But don't stay if it's getting too toxic, don't force yourself to stay, know how much you can handle okay?
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