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I was supposed to go to my friends house 4 hours away but I’m so depressed I couldn’t make it… he blocked me and sent me very mean messages for not coming down… he is my best friend… one of my only friends…

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    • laceyandme

      647d

      Sounds like hes not a true friend if hes doing all that. Its not your fault your depressed.

    • Belugabear

      647d

      Hi! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. As much as I’m sure you know he really isn’t a good friend and doesn’t deserve you, it’s hard to believe! Especially when you don’t think you have many other friends. But you sound like a wonderful person and friend, I would love to be friends if you’re interested :) message me any time! Hopefully you make some more friends and can replace that toxic relationship!

    • brit23

      647d

      Hey my friend don't beat yourself up about it this. I was debating on going to my best friends second wedding and when I told.her I would only be there for the ceremony she got super upset and angry. I told her I wasn't going at all to any of it. She hasn't texted me back or asked how I have been. This is a best friend of 15 years and she just doesn't understand my mental health right now. She believes only medication will help (which im on). I totally understand how you are feeling and I want you to know you are doing what is best for you. Hang in there.

    • LotusFlower

      647d

      That doesn't sound like he's a very good friend. I hope you understand that you are valued and loved just the way you are and that people support you the way you are.

    • kikki

      647d

      I have good friends who really try to understand if I find a toxic friend who doesn't even try to understand me I drop them you might have too I am giving my one friend one last chance

    • YALLTOOKALLTHENAMES

      647d

      I appreciate that.. everyone says that. He was home 2 weeks ago and I made sure to be with him every day until he left. No one else did and no one else even came to see him while he was home. He called me fake and liar and all this stuff. It just sucks that I did all that and then get blocked cause I can’t make it there because of my depression. Even his dad texted me. (54) saying “you lie..” because I didn’t show up. His dad went to visit as well

      • Elytra

        647d

        @YALLTOOKALLTHENAMES wow that sounds ridiculous. I can't believe he would just forget the kindness you showed him only 2 weeks ago

      • laceyandme

        647d

        @YALLTOOKALLTHENAMES wow you need new friends ajd its none of the dads business

      • Mami20

        647d

        @YALLTOOKALLTHENAMES wow Im sorry that is Not ok. You have every right to set boundaries for yourself and have them be respected. Take care of yourself, a true friend would ensure that is your first priority.

    • Elytra

      647d

      Sometimes you really have to go through this sort of thing to learn who's truly there for you. I hate that you're finding out that he's not actually a true friend. A 4 hour drive is such a long time and if you have depression that can be an impossible task. It's his own fault if he can't understand, you're not at fault for something you can't control. If you want to chat my DMS are always open

      • YALLTOOKALLTHENAMES

        647d

        @Elytra my reply is below

    • laceyandme

      647d

      Sounds like hes not a true friend if hes doing all that. Its not your fault your depressed.

      • YALLTOOKALLTHENAMES

        647d

        @laceyandme my reply is below

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