In the last four months I’ve Broken off a four year relationship Lost everything I’ve owned for 22 years Had my wallet stolenI truly do not know how I’m sposed to keep my head above water right now :( Help?
I feel you hun. I was in a violent and mind violent relationship for 5 years and I was held hostage. I lost everything twice. I know how you feel.
And I’m sorry about your wallet. If you need anyone to talk to let me know.
how did you cope with loosing things like photos and priceless sentimental items
I just think about being in that situation again and if I had to give up my stuff twice to get away then I just had to let them go. I lost a lot of sentimental things too. It’s tough especially on the days it crosses your mind or if there is something you want to look at or what not, then I recommend focusing on being out of the situation that you were in, which might have been toxic. It’s definitely hard.
I still think about sentimental items I lost after leaving my abusive ex. I have focused on the fact that they are just material things. Thankfully I can still remember the good memories associated with those items
I have really bad memory, I relied on photos to remember
That is the right mindset. Just remember the good moments.
And I’m proud of you for getting out.
I had the world piling up against me this time last year. Now I've met a guy who actually gets me, left a toxic job, built relationships that I had previously lost, and completed one of my biggest goals. I know it's a cliche that I always hated hearing, but things do eventually start getting better. Sometimes you just have to ride the crap Rollercoaster for a little bit.
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