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Struggling to Keep My Head Above Water After a Breakup and Loss

Khosh

656d

In the last four months I’ve Broken off a four year relationship Lost everything I’ve owned for 22 years Had my wallet stolen I truly do not know how I’m sposed to keep my head above water right now :( Help?

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    • carljr.hardees

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      I had the world piling up against me this time last year. Now I've met a guy who actually gets me, left a toxic job, built relationships that I had previously lost, and completed one of my biggest goals. I know it's a cliche that I always hated hearing, but things do eventually start getting better. Sometimes you just have to ride the crap Rollercoaster for a little bit.

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    • carljr.hardees

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      I had the world piling up against me this time last year. Now I've met a guy who actually gets me, left a toxic job, built relationships that I had previously lost, and completed one of my biggest goals. I know it's a cliche that I always hated hearing, but things do eventually start getting better. Sometimes you just have to ride the crap Rollercoaster for a little bit.

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    • MissFaren

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      That is the right mindset. Just remember the good moments.

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      • MissFaren

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        @MissFaren And I’m proud of you for getting out.

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    • BrieMarie

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      I still think about sentimental items I lost after leaving my abusive ex. I have focused on the fact that they are just material things. Thankfully I can still remember the good memories associated with those items

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      • Khosh

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        @BrieMarie I have really bad memory, I relied on photos to remember

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    • MissFaren

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      I feel you hun. I was in a violent and mind violent relationship for 5 years and I was held hostage. I lost everything twice. I know how you feel. And I’m sorry about your wallet. If you need anyone to talk to let me know.

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      • Khosh

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        @MissFaren how did you cope with loosing things like photos and priceless sentimental items

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        • MissFaren

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          @Khosh I just think about being in that situation again and if I had to give up my stuff twice to get away then I just had to let them go. I lost a lot of sentimental things too. It’s tough especially on the days it crosses your mind or if there is something you want to look at or what not, then I recommend focusing on being out of the situation that you were in, which might have been toxic. It’s definitely hard.

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