My Mom Hates Her Life Because of Me

I understand. I was kicked out at 19 and now, almost a year later, my mom is trying to talk to me, but refuses to contact me directly. Only through my dad. I now have a full time job and my fiancee has been with me through all of it. Remember that your gf has full autonomy and can choose if she thinks you're worth it, and clearly she does. She will know if situations become too much. She is more aware of herself than you can be, and this will absolutely bring you closer. I say this all from experience. It may become very stressful for a while, but things will improve.

Tooooo relatable. I was officially kicked out at 19, (but temporarily a handful of times before) and on the day I moved out my mom told me “I can’t believe you’re leaving.” Good for you for figuring out what works for you, and I hope that when you’re finally out of there, you guys can eventually begin to repair your relationship. I’m sorry it’s so rough right now.