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Struggling with BPD in a Loving Relationship

Anxiousboarderline

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I have the most amazing boyfriend but with my BPD I feel like I’m a horrible girlfriend and he deserves so much better. I feel like I’m only gonna drag him down and make him miserable. He says he’s the happiest he’s ever been with me and that he can’t wait for our future. He helps me through all my panic attacks and intrusive thoughts and supports me more than anyone ever has I love him sooo much but my intrusive thoughts are so loud

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    • moodyhuckleberry

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      @Anxiousboarderline I swear we are the same omg. I cry and yell at him too when I'm having breakdowns and it is just horrible, I am working so hard to try to be better. My bf also says he is so happy with me but I'm just worried he will resent me in the future. But he is so amazing he just keeps reassuring me. We are actually starting couples counseling on top of my normal therapy in July to hopefully help us. I hope things look up for you too 🖤

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    • moodyhuckleberry

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      Oh my god I'm literally going through this right now. We had a big fight last night about this exact thing. I kept saying he deserves better because he does, my emotions get out of control sometimes. But we just kept talking through it even though it was hurtful and uncomfortable. I'm so happy to know someone else had the same thoughts as me. 🥺💕

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      • Anxiousboarderline

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        @moodyhuckleberry exactly like so many times I’ve had breakdowns where I’m crying and yelling at him that he deserves better and I’m a piece of shit and he gets soooo upset and says that he’s never gonna leave Bc he loves me for me and that I do make him so happy and he couldn’t ask for a better gf

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        • moodyhuckleberry

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          @Anxiousboarderline I swear we are the same omg. I cry and yell at him too when I'm having breakdowns and it is just horrible, I am working so hard to try to be better. My bf also says he is so happy with me but I'm just worried he will resent me in the future. But he is so amazing he just keeps reassuring me. We are actually starting couples counseling on top of my normal therapy in July to hopefully help us. I hope things look up for you too 🖤

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