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556d

I’m a naturally extremely quiet, boring person. Sometimes I worry that I may never find someone who can love and accept my silent, boring nature.

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    • HCG2021

      555d

      You can only say you are quiet and boring if you are comparing yourself to others. Which I get and do sometimes as well but try and reFrame your thoughts process. You are you and amazingly unique. The only one who defines boring (for your life) is you. For years as a child and even into adulthood I felt lesser than because of my ADHD and all the other weird quirky things about me. Now I have peace with it, and actually really like who I am 🤪. Regardless don’t feel bad for feeling like you are, I believe most everyone has some insecurities with themselves.

    • HCG2021

      555d

      You can only say you are quiet and boring if you are comparing yourself to others. Which I get and do sometimes as well but try and reFrame your thoughts process. You are you and amazingly unique. The only one who defines boring (for your life) is you. For years as a child and even into adulthood I felt lesser than because of my ADHD and all the other weird quirky things about me. Now I have peace with it, and actually really like who I am 🤪. Regardless don’t feel bad for feeling like you are, I believe most everyone has some insecurities with themselves.

    • lukasmezari

      555d

      i think a lot of people appreciate silence, you just need to find the right person that can talk to you without words ykwim, don’t worry you’ll find someone!!

      • And2

        555d

        @lukasmezari thanks :)

    • coder87

      556d

      Why do you consider yourself boring?

      • And2

        556d

        @coder87 I am very quiet socially, sometimes contributing only a few words to conversations, even over the span of hours. I’ve learned to accept and appreciate my weirdness, but it still makes connecting with others challenging.

        • coder87

          556d

          @And2 well you don't seem to have an issue conversing digitally. Maybe the flow of conversation in person is just hard for you to keep pace with in a group. Online friendships might be good for you. Or maybe more one-on-one time with in-person friends. I also find that people who describe themselves as "weird" are rarely boring

    • SymptomOfNostalgia02

      556d

      I feel a very similar way to how you feel. It’s not how often I speak that I’m worried about for me, more like my eccentricity. It can be hard to keep going despite your worries but you never know what the future will bring, and there’s only one way to find out.

    • Shamrock1916

      556d

      ❤️ same club m8

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