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Nolan

647d

I’ve been treated in such a way that my curiosity is seen as bad. I ask questions, and I ask a lot of them. Nobody sees a problem with it except this person and it’s been making me feel like I’m not myself anymore. I don’t have permission to think, or ask questions

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    • Dcor8

      587d

      ❤️ 🙏

    • Dcor8

      587d

      ❤️ 🙏

    • Dcor8

      587d

      I bet too have been called the narsisist when you have been overly generous

    • Aluinn

      611d

      Sorry for such a big paragraph I used to like writing alot in elementary just feel like I need to get something off my chest aswell.

      • Nolan

        598d

        @Aluinn You’re fine. Surprisingly enough, I actually learned how to discipline myself years ago. Having goals and discipline only helps so much, but eventually, there’s things that require more direct approaches with. If self-discipline solved everything, then therapy, psychology and psychiatry wouldn’t exist. I appreciate the advice, but i also need to speak up for myself when I feel like I’m being given advice not suited for me. Yes, self help and self discipline is helpful, but it doesn’t address every psychological problem.

    • Aluinn

      611d

      @Nolan do you exercise everyday at least 5 to 10 minutes listen to music or look at the stars when you feel lonely remember your not the only one that is and feels Alone I was not myself when I was with the wrong people that I though were "good" friends turns out I never needed them I improved my mental health drastically getting along with my uncles and cousins showing them who I really am,a racing heart just needed a chance to prove myself I can now say that I'm more successful than I was last year smoking weed just being really lazy sleeping late waking up late I wasn't thinking how I am now my mindset was gone I really didn't know what to do but once I distanced myself and so did they I knew what I had to do just didn't know how so I followed these self improvement pages on Instagram one is teachmen_discipline witch I really recommend.Never settle for less or what you got once you can see and do things you thought were impossible I don't mean to brag or showoff but like I did 500 pushups in 5 days I want to say each time I started over but each time I got closer. Once you challenge yourself and make a bet with yourself you will see how mentally strong you are but still have a lot to learn like how to deal with emotions.Put all your attention and focus on you because people including your family will take it from you so I'd say be selfish with your goals after you finish a task talk to someone anyone about anything they bring up to you but don't get carried away because not everyone wants to be around so make sure its important if not move on to your next task and don't do not get attached to your brother anyone because you don't know what Thales feel about you or how they see you so if you keep following them around when you think he is cool with you he might think different so distant your self aswell learn something on your own because at the end of the day the only person that should and would take care of you,is you.

    • Eugenius

      631d

      So why haven’t you gone no contact with this person yet? You should not have any contact with this person. They are toxic and probably a narcissist.

      • Nolan

        612d

        @Eugenius I don’t know, I’m so lonely, I don’t have anyone else. I really want to like have a partner I guess I’m just taking what I can get

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