Struggling with Depression: Coping with a Well-Meaning Friend

My depression is so bad that I’ve been crying nearly every day for the past month. I have a really supportive friend I talk to daily but sometimes she says things and I internalize what she’s saying and it feels this is all my fault. For example pointing out that I’m overreacting, saying I should do certain things to avoid issues, etc. I know she means well, and she is trying to understand, but I end up feeling like how I feel is all my fault partially due to what she says. And of course in the moment, I’m aware enough to that I know I’m overreacting to stressors, but that doesn’t stop the tears, the I want to give up feelings, the nothing helps thoughts, etc.