i haven't been on here recently but i rlly need to talk and idk who to talk to bc i feel like i've been talking everyone's ears off abt this and nobody is responding to me rn but uhh i have to be out of my apt 12/31 at 11a which is like less than 4 days? and i don't have an apt to move to, i haven't started packing anything, and i work today and tomorrow. and i'm just so stressed out it feels like my life is falling apart and idk what to do at this point like i'm gonna just keep doing what i can? but like i'm paralyzed by fear here i can't do anything
Anxiety (Including GAD)
That's alot on someone's plate for sure. Sometimes that's all a person can do is just what they can and you let the pieces fall into place as you go. Maybe try packing a little each day and try to find an apartment. The world we live in is a hellscape and it's ridiculous that we don't all have secure housing. Keep up the fight and know that people care.
Make sure to take breathers. It may feel like you need to get everything done all at once but it's important to take a step back for a moment before continuing. From experience it's easy to get wrapped up in finishing something asap with no breaks, but you end up burning out quick.
I know these moments could be the hardest. Have a nice cup of coffee or tea, start writing what you need to pack, what you want to donate, and what you want to get rid of. Then google some apartments online and call some agencies. I would encourage you to either stay at a friend/relative home for a week until you find a home. Or rent an Airbnb. Hello
The “hello” part is by mistake, sorry
Get a storage unit and put everything in there. Pack a couple bags of clothing, toiletries, all that kind of stuff. Get a motel room for a few nights. Motel 6's are pretty cheap. I was homeless with my parents for two years, living in motels and our cars.
I was just in the same spot a month and a half ago! You don’t really know how many things you have to move until you start. It can be so stressful but remember in most states they can’t kick you out on that date. You have I think two weeks leeway. Just be sure to communicate with your property manager and tell them your situation l. They don’t want you to know that you have extra time. Hope this helps.
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