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NickyBear

551d

I need to vent guys… so a few days ago my mom sat me down to what I thought was one of our usual mother daughter afternoon talks. During this talk she was so upset and I couldn’t understand why until she pulled out her phone and showed me very disturbing and inappropriate messages from my soon to be husband. Due to my health I haven’t been the same as usual. I’ve been trying to get back to normal but it hasn’t been easy. My fiancé figured since I wasn’t giving him the attention he requires he would try and get it from my mom instead. Little history: I have type one diabetes, gastroperisis, fibromyalgia, neuropathy, chronic pain, urinary retention , anxiety, depression , history of epilepsy and a pulmonary embolism in my right lung , I’m also a recent amputee. I’ve been in and out the hospital since I was three I’ll be 26 next month. So things have not been easy. I’ve been with this man for four years … literally today is our anniversary or suppose to be. I went thru three painful procedures just so I could get my body properly prepared to carry his child, I cook every day I clean up after him every day and I always make sure he has clean clothes. I’m the first one up and the last one to go to bed. He’s making me feel like I’m overreacting. My mom is telling me to find someone else as if it’s easy finding someone to put up with my health problems and his mom made the unpleasant comment that I’m being foolish and shouldn’t be so sensitive. Oh and I was admitted last night for yet another infection…. Fml

Top reply
    • TrebleNurturer

      550d

      This man does not deserve you. It is better to be alone than with someone who would petition your own mother.

    • AngelC

      550d

      It's ok to be alone. Than to be with someone who doesn't cherish all of you. Keep your head up and know that your higher power will make a way. But you have to be willing to let go.

    • Brooke.pilch

      550d

      Sweetheart, I know life is scary being alone... epecially as a type 1 diabetic, epileptic, someone with anxiety, someone with depression... among many other things, but you deserve so much more. I have a lot of the same pre-existing conditions as you. Not all of the same, but MANY of the same. If there is anything to comfort you in this uncomfortable, anxiety inducing, depressing time, know that you have a CHOICE during this time. You have control! I don't think this man deserves you. I know it's hard finding someone who can understand you fully. I know. I am 30 and I am single, by CHOICE. I broke up with someone last night because I thought I deserved more. I am afraid of what the world has to offer me but I think it has to offer me more. As a 26 year old, I think the world has more to offer you ❤ You have the freedom to make a choice, make whichever one you want, but keep in mind that there are a lot of people out there, many who could and will LOVE YOU for exactly who you are. Please feel free to message me directly.

    • TrebleNurturer

      550d

      This man does not deserve you. It is better to be alone than with someone who would petition your own mother.

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