Sometime last month my best friend basically broke up with me. Currently, my girlfriend is at that persons house and I know I’m ok with it but I am hurting so much from the loss. I accidentally made my girlfriend mad before I realized what was happening inside my brain. I can’t stop this cycle and it’s hurting everyone around me and I’m just angering myself nonstop.
Anxiety (Including GAD)
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
I've been there before well something like it
how did you handle it? I don’t know what to do at all.
I probably didn't handle it well, I tried to be friends with the person again and again and eventually I realized there was nothing I could do but talk to my partner about it to let them know everything that had happened that way they would know. Every now and then the do stuff together and I still don't like it but I just tell myself that it could be worse. I know that's not the best advice and probably won't work for most people but that's the best thing I've got for that.
My best friend of 8 years gave up on me and I think of her often. Even though she kicked me to the curb 2 years ago. I'm upset with her but I have come to terms with the fact that what happened is what happened. If you don't think they're crying over losing you, there's no reason you should cry over them. It may hurt to lose something that's so close to you but they're not really a part of you. It feels like there's an empty spot for them but that feeling is in your mind. Don't worry about trying to fill their place or get them back. They might just need time to think about it. I know mine probably will never be my friend again. I pass by her neighborhood often and it always hurts. I guess all you can do is remember how they treated you and think about if that really is what a friend should do. Is it worth crying over? Time is the only factor that can control it now.
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