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TW: Self harm Is it normal to miss cutting after not doing it for about a month? Or am I just going crazy?
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yes. my intrusive thoughts always pop back up in situations where i’m disappointed with myself or very overwhelmed, it’s just a matter of learning coping skills and knowing you’re better off without it
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It’s completely normal because it’s comfortable and not engaging makes you uncomfortable but eventually the uncomfortable feeling will subside.
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In my experience yes. I was low key addicted to it and went through emotional withdrawals for it.
I'm a few years clean and I still miss it. Anytime I see a sharp object my brain goes back to it. Or if I'm super exhausted emotionally I think about it. I'm super glad you're clean though, hopefully it gets easy to cope with the loss of a coping mechanism.
Yes. I dealt with so many confusing feelings around this when I would try to stop. I haven't don't in years now, but I remember feeling like it was sort of an addiction and then having so many guilty feelings about wanting to do it. Another good tip can be holding icecubes/putting them on your wrists or back of neck or putting your hands up to your wrists in ice water for about 3 minutes. It helps reset your nervous system and still gives you a bit of a pain feeling from the iceness
From what I've seen it is normal, and I struggle with the same thing. I'm really sorry you have to deal with it but I know we'll both make it <3
it’s normal to miss it after a period of time. and don’t worry, you’re not crazy. im 10 months clean, and im still surprised im even at 10 months. and at some points, i miss it too. but you need to control the urge of doing it. hang in their, love. 💕
I have been clean for quite a while but every time I get stressed out to an extent it’s what I want to do more than anything else. I get so upset because of how much I miss it. I’ve been trying to find a new coping skill for 10 years now and I’m 3 months into hopefully figuring it out! I know 3 months doesn’t sound like awhile for kicking it but for me it is! Celebrate your small wins❤️❤️instead of cutting I would draw in read marker all over my skin. Like ALL over. I’d write the words I was saying in my head too. It really helped, maybe you could try it❤️
It’s normal to miss a coping mechanism. Despite its obvious drawbacks, it offered you something — a release, a way to counteract the emotional pain, etc. You’re not crazy at all.
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