Struggling to Leave a Toxic Relationship

Unfortunately as my dad always put it getting into a relationship because you hope to change someone into what you want or need it's always a horrible idea and usually ends in emotional trauma for the both people involved. I've been in your shoes and there's a lot of crying and pain involved when you do choose to finally leave, but the amount of relief I felt once I left was wonderful! It's a good idea to get as much support as you can from friends, family a therapist etc. But at the end of the day you have to make the choice and walk away

If he’s 25 years old, his brain is finished developing. Which means he will be a fundamentally impossible human being to change from that point forward. His personality will be set in stone. Hope that helped. Additionally, aside from what I’ve just stated, if you are destroying yourself self, soul, body, and mind, to change a human being who is not taking your efforts seriously or into true consideration, then maybe this man is not the best fit for you? Just think about it.