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It's crazy how my dad is the one who took me to therapy after I begged him a million times, but now he barely even supports me for it. He keeps invalidating me for being mentally ill, and whenever I'm stressed or sad he calls me weak. Just today after I talked with my psychiatrist, he told me that I don't even need to take my medication but if it wasn't for my medications, I wouldn't be able to do the things that I do now especially my hobbies.
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My parents did the same to me at first and for a long time they made me feel horrible with their comments. People who have never experienced anxiety or depression just don't understand. Over the years my parents eventually came to accept my condition, especially after I self harmed and spent some time in a psychiatric hospital. The hospital called all the people in my immediate life and bluntly told them of my conditions and that all would have to become accepting and supportive or I could end up back in the hospital or worse. Some family and friends turned away and went their separate ways, but I look at that as the trash taking itself out. đ 20+ years and I'm still here!
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@Dad.of.Many thank you so much for this, comments like this always gives me hope for the future. Things are kind of rough for me at the moment and most of the time I feel like I'm hanging by a thread but I just hope that one day I'll get to a point where I'm happy. and yeah, sometimes people turning away is a sign that they were never worth being around in the first place.
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That sucks I know how that is. I'm having to figure out therapy because originally my mom took me because I wasn't focusing in school. I wish she had kept trying. It's so hard to find help and people who know what to do about that. Your dad is not kind uhg
@sabbymer yeah I completely understand that, I'm so sorry. I hope that everything turns out well for you
My mom doesnât support me at all either, help me with therapy or doctors appointments. You should just get your own without your dads help
@Strawberryhk hopefully sometime in the future I will, but for now I need my dad's help with this because my parents help me financially since I'm a college student. Also I completely get that, my mother doesn't even know that I'm in therapy/on medication.
Seeing as you had to beg him to go to therapy in the first place, it seems he was never supportive :( unfortunately parents can be like that. But you are the only one who truly knows how your medicine and mental illness affect you :) so don't listen to what anyone else says, even if they are your parents
@Kite thank you sm, and it's strange but sometimes he can be really supportive and then sometimes he acts that way. I always try to be reasonable with him but sometimes he just snaps and gets angry because "your therapist/psychiatrist doesn't care about your mental illness and they just want money" or "you don't even need any of this"
@Asoingberg ah he's just being a bit cynical, maybe he had a bad experience with some sort of medical thing, from his childhood or something
@Asoingberg ah yeah I get it. Parents are really weird :( sorry you have to deal with that
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