caesar

223d

i am at my worst. my girlfriend broke up with me and its all my fault. she told me to contact her when i have finally became a real man. last might was horrible, i cried myself to sleep because i couldnt get my mind off of her. i just want her back, but i need to improve as a person. i need to improve for myself and her. i look at myself in the mirror and i cant even call myself my name because of how messed up i am. i just want to get better as a person. any advice on how to do that?.

Depression

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  • porcelainewaist

    223d

    tell me what u would like to improve on first

    • caesar

      223d

      just as a person in general, i feel like im just horrible.

  • porcelainewaist

    223d

    u could try to practice your manners. and you could try to respect the opposite gender for example if you are a man, respect the opposite gender the right way if you aren't doing so (as in don't baby/princess women or see them on a lower pedestal because they are a woman) you could try to communicate your feelings more towards her, and i know that most women love mature men so you could research on that aswell. and respecting boundaries. let me know if i helped :)

  • SourLemons

    223d

    hey, i'm sorry about your breakup... those really hurt. i went through one an embarrassingly long while ago and i'm still emotionally reeling from it. i don't know the whole story, but i just want to encourage you to maybe consider doing a couple of things. a breakup is tough on your heart. perhaps it's even a powerful emotional trauma. so, please take care of yourself. do the things that give you rest. it's easy to jump into the "i need to fix this right now" mentality as soon as something goes wrong in our relationships, but i think you need that self-care first. it'll help put you in a better state of mind when you do move on to what's next. also, since your partner's the one that initiated the breakup, it might be a while before she feels comfortable rebuilding a bond with you. idk what your or her thoughts on getting back together with an ex are, but for a breakup to be healthy, both of you have to move on. if it ends up that you get back together later, that's fantastic. but for now, here, the healthy and respectful thing to do is accept that she ended things and let yourself slowly heal. whatever happens... i'm sorry you're hurting so much man. sending positive vibes from afar ♡

    • caesar

      223d

      thank you, i really appreciate it. it just hurts me so much knowing im even asking for this type of advice because my relationship shouldn’t be in pieces right now. thank you again, i hope the best for you.

  • mearbearz

    223d

    Omgg I am so sorry that happened. That was an awful thing to say to you. We may all have our issues (god knows I do), but that’s not okay what she said doesn’t matter what you did. Let me know if you want to talk about okay ❤️ *hugs you deserve better

  • Hannah_6

    222d

    The one thing I like it is when people think of me instead of just themselves. It's a common trait that I found lacking in guys my own age. My hubby accepts that I have a Princess Personality and helps me. He understands when I'm having anxiety attacks. I didn't have to change much which was a huge difference with my ex trying to turn me into a cheerleader. A mood pill called Zoloft helped makes me more mellow and sleep. Welcome to talk to me about any of these questions.

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