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MatchaBunn

516d

Does anyone have any tips for ways to transition your thinking? I tend to focus on what’s right in front of me, what I can do in the moment, and tangible ways I can “keep up” in life. But it tends to make me feel bad the longer I sit and start finding things I can’t control. I want to be able to focus more on my interests, and move away from too much heavy thinking about my trauma or interactions with others. I feel like I have a weird problem where I’m able to focus on life stuff (appointments, work, cooking, planning out my day) but I can’t connect with fun stuff for me.

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    • Captain_Honey

      515d

      I'm in a similar boat. I can always focus on things that I classify as work but if it's anything else I can't do it. I'm working on shifting how I see different activities. Maybe that would help you. For me it's the different between school and an organization I'm a part of. School is just a thing I do. The organization is work. So I'm trying to make school have the same priority as work. I'm doing this by looking at my assignments as the stepping stones I need to take to do something else. Maybe the same would work for you. If exercise is fun for you (as an example) try looking at it the same way as life things. I hope this helps

    • La.La.Ladybug

      515d

      For me sometimes engaging in something I see as fun with other people helps. Their enjoyment, laughter and the accountability of being there makes it harder fore to be disengaged or distracted. Also telling yourself it's ok to not feel enthusiastic or excited about something you like (or liked) - but I struggle with this a lot too

      • MatchaBunn

        513d

        @La.La.Ladybug I think this is a very gentle and balanced way to approach what I’m seeking. I love seeing other people enjoy themselves, and I like spending time together doing those things. Sometimes I feel awkward when my emotions don’t match others, but I’m getting more comfortable with the idea that I do not have to show my emotions a certain way. I wish you the best of luck on your journey, friend, in being okay with not feeling certain ways about things.

    • Kelbel

      515d

      I went through that. I love reading and doing puzzles. I went out and bought a new puzzle and forced myself to do it. I felt so good doing it. I also love adult coloring books. I haven't picked one-up in a long time. I need to.

    • Captain_Honey

      515d

      I'm in a similar boat. I can always focus on things that I classify as work but if it's anything else I can't do it. I'm working on shifting how I see different activities. Maybe that would help you. For me it's the different between school and an organization I'm a part of. School is just a thing I do. The organization is work. So I'm trying to make school have the same priority as work. I'm doing this by looking at my assignments as the stepping stones I need to take to do something else. Maybe the same would work for you. If exercise is fun for you (as an example) try looking at it the same way as life things. I hope this helps

      • MatchaBunn

        513d

        @Captain_Honey thank you for sharing your perspective! This makes sense to me, and it’s definitely something I want to do with interests and sensory needs. I appreciate the encouragement, and I hope you are able to work on shifting your thoughts as well!

    • PandaWuver

      516d

      Remind yourself that the fun and enjoyable parts of life are more important than the work parts.

    • NinaGirl

      516d

      I totally get it I have adhd so I totally understand where your coming from. Um just try harder to not do what your doing now

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