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Rueuwu

476d

Does anyone else obsess over their partner so much that every little thing makes you jealous and sad :(

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    • TraumaHarley

      474d

      @Rueuwu I just have abandonment issues and I'm genuinely in love with mine. I'm more territorial then jealous, cus I know what kind of person I am and what's mine is mine back off. However I can empathize with you on all of this forsure. Is yours annoyed with it all the time, but when you pull away they get upset cus it's like they actually like it then just don't know how to communicate anything other than frustration and anger?

    • Melancholyghosts

      476d

      Yes absolutely

    • deathlost

      476d

      Yes, I did this for the first year or so of getting with my partner. I obsess over every small detail, and try to act like them in order to keep their attention but a lot of the time it doesn't work, which makes me feel insane.

    • Taffyy

      476d

      Yes I do, we're long distance so it's especially hard for me not to feel jealous. If I see he's online and not responding to my messages it really disheartens me and it makes me feel like he's losing interest in me and it makes me feel like he's talking behind my back yk

    • FS_cookielove

      476d

      Not really no

    • TraumaHarley

      476d

      My WHOLE RELATIONSHIP. And it genuinely feels like they're cheating and I know a part of me believes genuinely he's not but I feel it so deep and Idk how to change it

      • Rueuwu

        476d

        @TraumaHarley literally me too I suffer from insane retroactive jealousy it’s pure hell :(

        • TraumaHarley

          474d

          @Rueuwu I just have abandonment issues and I'm genuinely in love with mine. I'm more territorial then jealous, cus I know what kind of person I am and what's mine is mine back off. However I can empathize with you on all of this forsure. Is yours annoyed with it all the time, but when you pull away they get upset cus it's like they actually like it then just don't know how to communicate anything other than frustration and anger?

    • chronically.iconic

      476d

      Yes and no. I get jealous over the smallest things, like if they’re not replying to my messages or hanging out with their friends but don’t invite me, but then we’re poly so I’m not at all bothered if they hook up with someone else. It’s a strange situation

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