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Ok. I'm having serious distrust issues with the man I'm engaged to. It's causing me to have nightmares and anxiety. He never makes me a priority. He has multiple social media accounts on each social media app. Some I knew about, some I stumbled on by accident. He keeps his phone locked and won't even look at it while I'm in the room yet he gets messages and stuff whole I'm there. It's literally driving me crazy.
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Sorry to hear this, but everyone is right. Trust is everything, flat out ask, and if you feel it is off. LEAVE.
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He's hiding ALOT. Don't trust him. Get out ASAP
I want to give you a free copy of a VERY good book. It’s called “Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men” and it’s by Lundy Bancroft. Anyone and everyone can and should read this book. When my husband and I read it, we read it together, because we both had abusive fathers and we’re actively choosing not to be that way. But not everyone has a partner who is safe to read this book with…and that’s why I always give it away, for free, as a PDF that can be easily accessed, hidden, and accessed again. https://ia800108.us.archive.org/30/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf
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@WanderingStars I'm fortunate to not need this, but I am so grateful people like you exist. Saving this in case I ever know someone who needs it. ❤️
If you don't feel comfortable with talking with eachother about things and are able to get them fixed, then this relationship is a waste. The fiancé should always be there for the other and not hide things from the other. It's dishonesty and that won't really change when you both get married. Me and my fiancé have been together for three years. Our phones can be locked but we can get into eachothers phones at anytime. We talk about our issues, and our concerns. Our dislikes, and likes. Since we can talk to eachother about anything, we are closer. He doesn't hide anything from me, and I don't hide anything from him. Unless it's a surprise for the other, we tell eachother everything. If your not able to do that in this relationship, then what is it that your really wanting in this relationship. Clearly something isn't right, either you stay in this relationship and be miserable or find someone that fits your wants and needs.
It’s not always easy but anything worth having is worth fighting for. If you have doubts lay them out on the table. If he can’t look at you in the face and answer you then there’s big issue’s. Run don’t walk Run
My spouse and I have been married going on 33 years. Trust is everything! You need to get this nailed down before you even think about marrying this person. Marriage is not 50:50 it’s more like 90/10.
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