I wish I had a better mom. My mom had developmental issues and problems that affected me greatly. I have been affected by her in so many ways. I wish it didn’t happen that way.
I feel this in my soul. My mom struggled with addiction and abusive relationships, and then when the tables turned and I was in her seat with the same things happening in my life, she had abandoned me. She took off with my child to Oklahoma I'm fighting to get her back. She did it out of meanness and always said the most hateful things. I try everyday to not hate her, I still want her to love me and I'm 32 so it feels pathetic. You are not alone.
your not alone I'm 32 and because of my mom's mental abuse I fear everything I fear being on my own and then she constantly says I'm not gonna be here for ever and constantly says she will die 1 day but still puts fear in me about wanting my own place I can't have a relationship cuz she tries to make me into her and her relationship less life and we are 2 different people she wants me to chose her life moving out will be the best and I mean best thing I can ever do but I am 2 scared at the same time she a narcissistic and don't know it
😥 I know how you feel Same thing with my mom I never feel loved at all most of my family is toxic and it affects me a great deal it’s hard when it’s your own family and it affects your mental state I’m sorry you’re going through such a hard time not many people can understand how bad depression can actually get sending you lots of strength and support
my mom is another state, which helps me greatly. I can chose how often to talk to her, but sometimes I hope things will get better because I want a relationship with mom. Sometimes she goes through phrases of being nice esp when I haven't talked to her a couple of times cause enough is enough. I don't like doing that, but I needed to take care of myself. The 1st time I blocked my mom was when started insulting me cause I wouldn't ask for a raise on a job that I was newer in the field and didn't want to live in a ln apt out of my price range. She started calling me or texting me nonstop w many insult. Apparently I'm a brat etc to her. I guess when everyone else was congratulating me and she was exploding I realized how much of a prob there is.
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