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dabzZz

602d

just got dumped...one less reason to go on. wonderful

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    • Trench

      602d

      @dabzZz Yeah, it is. I had a girl that I did the same thing for (wife, house, everything)... Twice. I lost everything. The good thing about losing everything, you got it all once, you can get it all, again. Not gonna lie, took me a couple years to really recover, more mentally than the things lost. I still don't think I've fully recovered from last time, yet, even though it's been a couple years. But, things are better than they were. Things do get better. Still haven't really dated since I lost her. And no one ever seems appealing. But, I have a life, now. I'm still moving forward. You will, too. I remember being where you are now. And, God, it sucks. Worst feeling in the world. My entire world crashing in around me, the only thing I really ever cared for gone. I don't envy you. But, fine heals all wounds. You just gotta give it that time. Couple years from now, you won't even recognize who you are from today. You'll be doing so much better.

    • Trench

      602d

      Man, I haven't even dated in the last 2+ years. Let me tell you, there's still plenty of there worthwhile. A partner shouldn't make us happy. We should make ourselves happy first, then hopefully find a partner that enhance that happiness. Not be someone we depend on for our happiness.

      • dabzZz

        602d

        @Trench you're right, it's been a long time coming, she's been distancing herself for a while now, I was just holding on to some hope. Gonna try to keep my head up, but I threw my life away for her, lost my house, my wife. Now I've nothing. It's hard man

        • Trench

          602d

          @dabzZz Yeah, it is. I had a girl that I did the same thing for (wife, house, everything)... Twice. I lost everything. The good thing about losing everything, you got it all once, you can get it all, again. Not gonna lie, took me a couple years to really recover, more mentally than the things lost. I still don't think I've fully recovered from last time, yet, even though it's been a couple years. But, things are better than they were. Things do get better. Still haven't really dated since I lost her. And no one ever seems appealing. But, I have a life, now. I'm still moving forward. You will, too. I remember being where you are now. And, God, it sucks. Worst feeling in the world. My entire world crashing in around me, the only thing I really ever cared for gone. I don't envy you. But, fine heals all wounds. You just gotta give it that time. Couple years from now, you won't even recognize who you are from today. You'll be doing so much better.

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