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MusicalHeart95

688d

Do you ever truly heal from childhood trauma? I'm going on 27 soon and I still can't get over everything I've been through. I feel like I'm getting "too old" to still be dealing with it. Yes, I was still being manipulated and hurt by my adoptive mom but up until recently I cut the ties. I feel like if she wasn't able to take care of another child after my sibling she should've just kept me in foster care...

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    • MusicalHeart95

      687d

      @cozybunbun A beautiful post and I really needed to hear this right about now. I just got finished crying. I never really wanted to cry because I have so much to cry about it. In this moment I'm exhausted of crying. And I still have so much more to cry about so I know exactly what you mean. My therapist has changed our sessions to Intensive Trauma Therapy. Starting from the very beginning and then up to now. I'm terrified to know how deep I get. But you're right. Thank you so much. Bless. πŸ™πŸ½πŸ’œ

    • cozybunbun

      687d

      I have found the most comfort from getting a therapist that understands severe trauma without making me feel like I need to forgive them. The big thing I've had to work on is letting myself feel the pain instead of trying to logic myself out of it. Letting myself cry for the things that happened when I didn't have a safe space, letting myself be uncontrollably mad that someone did that, letting myself mourn the experiences I didn't get to have because I wasn't given what I needed. Trauma doesn't care how long it's been. It's like a thorn that's been stuck and grown infected. Digging through it to clean it out hurts like hell and you might need help with it. But it'll help the healing along more than hoping it'll go away.

      • MusicalHeart95

        687d

        @cozybunbun A beautiful post and I really needed to hear this right about now. I just got finished crying. I never really wanted to cry because I have so much to cry about it. In this moment I'm exhausted of crying. And I still have so much more to cry about so I know exactly what you mean. My therapist has changed our sessions to Intensive Trauma Therapy. Starting from the very beginning and then up to now. I'm terrified to know how deep I get. But you're right. Thank you so much. Bless. πŸ™πŸ½πŸ’œ

    • Roland

      687d

      I don't think it ever FULLY goes away...you just learn to live with it. You can get to 99% healed and healthy but traumas stick around. It's about accepting that it happened and not letting it control you. Easier said than done but I'm here if you need to vent.πŸ™

      • MusicalHeart95

        687d

        @Roland Hi there. Thank you for your kind words and I thank you for the chat invite. πŸ™πŸ½πŸ’œ

    • Stardawg

      687d

      Honestly no if felt fully healed and it been years how ever I do really well for while before ever comes crashing back full force but ever year the time between episodes gets slightly longer

      • MusicalHeart95

        687d

        @Stardawg Hello. Thank you for your response. I appreciate your insight. I am only in the beginning of grieving and really handling family issues so I cannot wait to see the best part of me.

        • Stardawg

          687d

          @MusicalHeart95 I believe in you it's go to relly hard some times but you have everything you need within your self

    • MusicalHeart95

      687d

      Hi there. Thank you so much for this. I appreciate your kind words and your blessings. ❀️

    • jaspycryst

      688d

      Hello, love. I understand your struggles. Things do take time because you are human. You're strong. I'm glad you reschedule out here because its been helping me and I hope it helps you. Its good that you cut ties in my opinion. And no, you never truly heal, but you definitely find ways to healthily cope. You're doing good, I see good in your future.

    • Elladolores

      688d

      I’m so sorry you going through all this. This is me, I tell my self over and over to overcome my traumas of rape, stabbed and much more. WHY WILL I LET SOMEONE ELSE TAKE MY POWER, CONTROL MY EMOTIONS MY LIFE?. THEY DONT EVEN KNOW IT. THEY LIVING FREELY DOING THEIR THING AND IM CARRYING A BURDEN THAT WAS NEVER MY FAULT. I OWN MY POWER I OWN MY EMOTIONS NOBODY ELSE WILL TAKE MY POWER. IS ONLY YOURS TO TAKE. After doing my affirmations I never cried again I forgave and felt free. Try it it takes time but is possible. Blessings! ❀️

      • MusicalHeart95

        687d

        @Elladolores Thank you so much for your uplifting words. ❀️

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