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494d

Share your favorite self-love methods for coping

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  • scooter12

    494d

    taking a cold shower when i feel anxious

    • Kaleb

      369d

      absolutely feel the same 🤗

    • Aliengoddess

      205d

      yea it helps a lot do em everyday now such a great change 😃

  • RobinHood

    494d

    👍

  • QueenofHearts

    494d

    I don’t hold myself to a ridiculous standard that I already know is not achievable with how I’m currently feeling.

    • Elianah

      277d

      lol u don't need to brag

  • Unicorn19

    494d

    I soak my feet in a basin with moisturizing soap mixed in and watch a funny TV show. I also take the time to use a face scrub on my feet to scrub out the dead skin, feels amazing

  • Emma37

    493d

    Taking a nice long hot bath while listening to my favorite music or watching a good movie

  • PurpleBadger

    492d

    A nice cup of tea

  • Dollymygirl

    478d

    Warm drink, cozy blanket, warm bath or shower, comforting tv show or movie, books/ magazines, massage, home spa treatments, comfort food

  • Sleepysleeps

    478d

    Hot tea, warm bath, face mask, favorite video game or tv show

  • Maryssa

    474d

    Getting myself a coffee, taking a shower, get ready for the day(when I feel like it) most days I don’t get ready.

    • maharahnee

      150d

      Sorry. I feel that way sometimes too. Prayer helps and it usually passes.

  • Mila

    473d

    Long bath, reading a nice book and meeting with a friend.

  • Lora

    473d

    Making myself a huge bowl of pasta, drinking wine and watching a nice movie.

    • Ukor

      277d

      you my friend, are living the life

  • ailand

    471d

    Playing video games >< sometimes I forget how much they help me wind down.

    • sabbymer

      231d

      oh yes! I also play right before work and they help my brain adjust

      • EliteLexy

        150d

        I will have to try this! I utilize them after work or when my brain is overwhelmed

  • Luberomi

    453d

    I like to listen podcast, relax music

    • xxARYN420xx

      332d

      what podcasts do you listen to? I'm always lookin for new ones

    • crypticvampire

      207d

      I love my true crime podcasts!

    • AnniB

      206d

      I know this will sound stupid but where is a podcast??

      • SmileySnail

        206d

        there are a lot on Spotify! Or sometimes I just find true crime videos on YouTube and turn my screen off and just listen to them like podcasts if the narration is good

  • Dog_mom

    453d

    Getting my nails done. That's the only thing I do for only myself.

  • Mila

    452d

    Going out to my favourite coffee place and reading a book there.

  • Shawn

    442d

    I try to go to a friends house and spend time with someone or I just ask my fiancé to be with me for a while

  • Female65

    405d

    Doing my nails, prayer and music, painting, hot tea

  • Lena08

    391d

    walking my puppy 💕

    • Plato

      319d

      love this. Dogs are the best

  • jojog85

    387d

    Hey

  • PeculiarSpiral

    386d

    Shrooms

  • amakai

    384d

    Video games ❤️

  • Spookybee

    383d

    Being with my dog, watching TV, playing video games

  • Manghos_for_lifee

    373d

    Taking a walk or just sitting in the sun ^^

  • SullenDragon

    373d

    Hot shower , cuddling with my pet rabbit . Gaming and most importantly some peace and quiet from my daily life .

  • lydiadeetz

    373d

    Digital art, it's forgiving and not as expensive as using real materials. You can create whatever you want.

  • Rogue.x

    373d

    Playing Nintendo switch

  • ten

    372d

    What's your favorite game to play?

    • Ukor

      277d

      ✨ Splatoon ✨

    • sabbymer

      231d

      minecraft, red dead 2, and puzzle games :3

  • Kell

    371d

    Crocheting

  • Blueoraj

    371d

    Watching dramas, they are my safe space and escape from reality really

  • Hartley

    369d

    Playing video games, playing my guitar, drawing sometimes, listening to music

    • Ariishiya

      369d

      I adore playing video games and drawing, I listen to music all day and I own guitars but it's a little bit hard for me to play 😥🤗

      • Hartley

        369d

        right music never does ya wrong. And just keep practicing playing guitar, I’ve been playing for 7 years. What’s your favorite video game? 😊

  • Dystonia

    369d

    Taking walks with my dog Ember

  • Doglover25006

    369d

    Meditation, music, exercise

  • Doglover25006

    369d

    Reading

    • Hartley

      369d

      what kind of books do you like?

  • Peachy_Keen

    368d

    Gilmore girls

    • PEMprincess

      250d

      Me. Too. Why does it work? No idea, but it does 😂😂💘

  • Sharla

    368d

    Taking a walk. It’s so soothing

  • mckaela

    368d

    music helps me a lot and when i’m having a panic attack I splash my face with cold water or get in a cold water shower

  • atami

    367d

    learning how to hype myself up :) took a long time to learn to love myself; but when you realize you're gonna be stuck with you forever; might as well love who you are and constantly see yourself improve to love yourself even more

  • Sleepysleeps

    367d

    Video games and baths are my go to 🙌

  • FoxChaser

    360d

    I used to go out to beautiful parks in the car and walk my dog. He passed away a month ago. I’ve never been this sad in my life.

    • Kaitikins

      203d

      I'm so sorry. I know exactly how you feel. I've had so many of my doggies die in my lifetime. ( We always had a lot of them growing up. We had a lot of property to adopt and rescue). The best thing to focus on is the good life that you gave them and how much different that it could have been for them. Remember, getting another dog is not "replacing your other baby". It's giving another one a chance to have a great life.

  • RareEyez86

    360d

    Yoga, meditation, listening to meditation music, 🧘🏽‍♀️ A nice hot bubble bath with a glass of wine or champagne, Stargazing, long walks in the park are on the beach to view the sunset 🌇 ✨️

  • B_G

    359d

    Taking a hot bubble bath and relax 💕

  • hannah333

    359d

    Being organized. I love it! Helps me feel calm and clean. Sooo relaxing!

  • Amelia_99

    359d

    A nice hot bath!

  • Sifu

    352d

    Reading

  • Pollipocket

    350d

    Mediate deep into being greatful . Prayer. Music. Hot Tea. Get on yoga mat for stretching. Get out for a full body massage as often as possible. Take a walk with a friend.

  • dixiechik

    340d

    Video games music and just tuning everyone out

  • Poeticlycorrect

    340d

    I recently started a gym membership. Having time in my day that I dedicate to me and being active helps set the tone for the rest of the day.

  • Naite

    339d

    Spend time with my family or travels places

  • Sicko

    332d

    🙌I turn my brain off and walk my dy

  • Sicko

    332d

    Walk my dog

  • D3stiny

    332d

    Love my hobbies! Video games and drawing

  • Greeny

    318d

    Swimming and just floating around my pool

  • missy1966

    318d

    Put in my earbuds and listen to my Jesus music 🥰

  • Lizherrera_22

    318d

    Walking my dog and reading a new book

  • BruceLeeRoy

    317d

    Yoga, exercise, painting, music, Netflix

  • Dame

    310d

    Remind myself I am enough and go get pampered.

  • Llody

    310d

    I actively do things to add to my hobbies, interests, and self improvement. I am not my illness, my personality is not made by my illness it is made by me. I dont use my illnesses as a crutch, only as inspiration to improve how ever feels right for me.

  • greenolive0611

    304d

    Cry. Just let it all go. It's so frustrating when people think thsy crying doesn't solve anything. I disagree somewhat, sure, it won't actually fix your problem but sometimes a good cry can solve internal turmoil to a degree. With that, I say that it does solve stuff

  • Sunshineseeker90

    293d

    Warm/hot Bath! 🤗😊☺ It's the best! Locked in a bathroom where no on can bother you and all your problems disappear for 30-60 minutes. Or three hours. 😅

  • Vi.Vi

    293d

    Lighy makeup. Not too much, just enough to see yourself in a new light. I like putting on a bit of eyeliner and pink eye shadow on my lower eyelid

  • Summer2022

    293d

    I do my nails and any art I have the energy for and when I’m feeling hopeless I grab whatever crystal fits the mood turn off the lights and listen to chill music we only get one life and one body and we survive and try to thrive or the sadness and sickness can swallow us whole

  • MatchaBunn

    290d

    I greatly lower my expectations for myself, and I celebrate the little wins I make throughout the day.

  • VariaMoon

    290d

    Coloring….. found out the super detailed ones are great for when you are angry! Guess the focus needed drains the anger.

  • LyraDaenestra

    289d

    Genuine self love. Remembering that I know how hard I've tried, I know how hard it is, and I love myself even with my flaws because I know I'm always doing my best.

    • LyraDaenestra

      289d

      It makes me feel so much better and helps me to really relax.

  • Soskae

    289d

    A lack of independence does not mean a lack of purpose and meaning.

  • Purplelover8838

    289d

    I'm not quite there yet.maybe in the future I will find something.

  • freyaslady

    287d

    I'm not that great at keeping up on my self care, but the couple things I do have to do with my appearance. I've been wearing acrylic nails for about 2.5 years, I have one nail tech I'm very loyal to because he does beautiful artwork and we have great talks. I get a pedicure as well about every month or so, and I keep up on my hair, keeping it trimmed and colored to get rid of the greys I'm too young to show. I have a bit of a makeup addiction and I love doing my makeup as a form of self care and art. Honestly when I'm looking my best its hard to feel down in the dumps.

  • Mop

    283d

    Treat yourself as you would treat others 💕

  • maic

    281d

    I will literally sit in a room alone and talk to myself in a mirror just having a therapy session expressing my thoughts/emotions and somehow that really really helps me to connect to my feelings and validate them/understand them better in the same way I would for a loved one

  • mnmerritt02

    277d

    Music helps me 100%!

  • cinnamon_sunlight

    271d

    A warm cup of coffee in my favorite mug, giving myself permission to rest in bed in my comfy clothes, watching/taking pictures of sunlight playing in the shadows.

  • Lygia

    271d

    I do my nails. I do them myself because one I can't justify spending that much money to get them done and two it's relaxing to do them myself. I've been doing them for about 10 years. They're non acrylics but still it's a process I've created. I feel better about myself with them. It relieves my stress for a bit.

    • chencho2320

      207d

      well if it helps u, feel free to paint mines if u need to lol

  • HyenaClan

    270d

    It used to my berserker hoodie + dark room + bed + something low stakes on my iPad. But lately that hasn’t been helping.

  • Phasers

    257d

    Jacking off

  • ellinoris

    257d

    Standing naked infront of the mirror saying affromations of self love, or being outside practicing yoga, or mini spa moments they all help me relax, feel confident, and comforted

    • chencho2320

      207d

      so wait a min, how does standing naked in front of the mirror help work?

  • michelledevyn

    257d

    My mother always says that I'm always doing my best, and that's always good enough. Sometimes your best is just staying alive and that good enough.

    • maharahnee

      150d

      Thank you for that.

  • Dayze

    251d

    I wish I did but I hate myself. I spend most of my days laying in bed wishing myself away and just trying not to act on intrusive dangerous thoughts now

    • TexAss

      221d

      Find some mommy groups in your area. Facebook is a good place to start. You can even try homeschool groups or support groups of any ailments you or your kids have. 👋 Central Texas here

  • andooe

    251d

    Going on walks (no matter how short), playing video games (sometimes with friends), making myself a hot drink. Or, on a really bad day, turning on the fairy lights in my room, closing the curtains, getting under my weighted blanket, and watching stuff on my laptop for hours. It doesn't have to be productive, I just need to feel okay.

  • thefloorislava

    251d

    Calling a friend or younger family member and just asking them to tell u about a mundane part of their day/ vent about something bothering them. It makes me feel like I did something nice for them, plus I try to get out of bed and walk around during it

  • danimarie214

    250d

    Long hot shower a soft blanket when I get sensory overload my squishmellow for my regression and sleep for when I get overwhelmed

  • Vyowleta

    231d

    meditation or exercise

  • sabbymer

    231d

    Music. Video games. Nature. Also training my brain to change my atmosphere and do self care. I'm trying to write more. I like cooking and cleaning sometimes too

  • AngellMwi

    227d

    Baking by myself Making sugar flowers Music playing in the kitchen Getting lost in the art and science of sugar

  • skull_girl

    226d

    Blasting music (Lovejoy in particular), reading, and watching some comfort videos I've saved on YouTube :)

  • heycamila

    226d

    showering in cold water and crying. it feels like i’m in a movie as the water runs through my hair lol. also going to my porch and painting my nails and journaling with jhene aiko playing (i recommend w.a.y.s and trigger protection mantra)

  • Storme25

    222d

    Spas

  • DariaFae

    221d

    Crying

  • RogueDream

    217d

    Video games or listening to music

  • galaxysedqe

    209d

    disney films help me when i'm panicky! winnie the pooh (2011) brings me sm comfort 💕💕

  • MakMcK

    209d

    Hot baths with Netflix or painting my nails. It’s kinda lame but those small things make me feel so much better. Something so simple as taking a few minutes JUST for me make me feel so much better

  • CozyVibez

    208d

    Listening to music, losing myself in video games

  • juliecarlstan

    208d

    When it's all too much I seek sensory deprivation. Helps

  • Fallinstarzz

    207d

    I enjoy doing my macrame to relax and destress. Crafts keep me centered.

  • crypticvampire

    207d

    I listen to Morbid podcast and color

  • chencho2320

    207d

    Rap instrumentals helps me alot idk I guess it's something about music that keeps me calm

  • MagickalRebel

    206d

    I garden, or cuddle my animals. Wrap myself in my weighted blanket, take cold showers, yoga...really depends on what kind of heartache I'm experiencing.

  • Aliengoddess

    205d

    Going outside looking at the trees, drawing aliens ,dancing,singing, cold showers, and eating fave foods,💚💚😁

  • Nikki5

    205d

    Going outside, chillin on the lake, playing with my kids I need them💕 my mom always brings good energy but most of all I pray 🙏

    • maharahnee

      150d

      Haven't been able to get outside for months due to CPTSD. I am probably finding a lot to grieve about

  • AbyssOfEnigma

    204d

    hugging myself ❤️

  • Braeliynn

    203d

    Crotchet and coloring and Christian music

  • CJ17

    203d

    Jiu Jitsu, late night walks, drawing, Bad Bunny🐰

  • lazydaisy

    200d

    Dark humor. Music. Friends. The little things like my favorite cookies or movies or outings. My dog ❤️

  • IAmHer2

    200d

    Music 🎶🎶

  • Sherry_B

    193d

    Hot epsom salt bath, walking, music and photography

  • nora.notes.84

    193d

    eating solely whole foods during the week

  • YM

    193d

    Music

  • Sweetpea94

    193d

    Reading, music and when in doubt watching anime

  • Emmyyy

    193d

    Sad music, it's weird but it helps me cope on most days.

  • Marcaroni22

    193d

    Anime, woodworking, driving through the back roads, music and going for a nice windy road on my motorcycle.

  • depressedunicorn

    193d

    Drinking tea🫖☕❤️

  • Morticia013

    190d

    Sitting on my shower seat. Eyes closed water raining down on me taking all my troubles with it, down the drain.

  • Dad.of.Many

    188d

    yesss. I was a fine artist for years but now my hands shake due to meds so digital art with the undo function is a Godsend!

  • Bre19

    163d

    Dancing to pump up songs

  • Gaz

    163d

    daydreaming?

  • Ms.Ruckman32

    163d

    Art..I do a lot of odds and ends...junk Journaling, watercolor painting, sketches, doodles, arts & crafts. Music and art go together like milk and honey.

  • tommie

    163d

    I eat

  • HarryPotter

    163d

    TR his might sound stupid but having at least 3 pairs of socks on is super comfy and just feels great on my feet. Right now I have five on.

  • EternalEyes

    163d

    Reading my Bible and remembering the promises of God

  • blinke

    162d

    I spend time with my cat

  • DreamlandSystem

    162d

    Spending time with our animals

  • Tinabunneh

    162d

    Making a hot beverage to sip on and weighing myself down with blankets and stuffed animals ❤️

  • Kris_TheDumbo

    151d

    I cope by drawing sketches of my feelings, and sometimes listening to music, or better yet! Both!

  • couragousepilepic21

    150d

    Writing poetry

  • peachy45

    150d

    Well I hug myself I tell myself you got this several times a day

  • couragousepilepic21

    150d

    Chocolate

  • bunniigutz

    149d

    a long bubble bath with lots of snacks, aromatherapy, my favorite vaporwave/rock/pop music, dim lighting, and browsing fanart or watching youtube

  • Sincerely

    148d

    I shower as many times as I need to.

  • HerbalJelly

    147d

    Making a cup of tea or treating myself to the super fancy tea place with private rooms and delicious finger sandwiches!

  • Songbird24

    147d

    Headphones time

  • BellaBolas

    147d

    Music and baking

  • Catlover49

    147d

    Yoga, meditation, reading and napping, baking sweets, scent therapy/ lighting candles

  • canoli

    147d

    Take a walk. Chill and listen to calm music. Play with my dogs.❤️

  • Olivebutter2236

    140d

    Skin care. Treat yourself to good quality shower items. Super smelly lotions that make your skin soft, hair products that make your hair soft, quality shaving products, creamy texture body butters. When you feel good on the exterior it truly helps with your interior and mental health.

  • RosiePosie21

    140d

    Reality tv tbh. Also trying new recipes, or taking hot showers and singing along to my favorite songs. Ooo and if you have pets mostly like a dog or cat not like a fish (sorry fishes 😅) but go play with them. It’s honestly boosts my mood seeing them happily playing. They do the cutest funniest things 😄

  • Eren2273

    139d

    I love to take baths and do a full skincare and haircare routine for self love!

  • BeanBetter

    139d

    Self care is important

  • mark45

    138d

    Music happens to be my best pills

  • Babymomma3

    138d

    A warm bath or movies or music

  • Stinkyparanoidrat

    138d

    Snuggle with my cat, emotional support animals really are such a huge help, especially when I'm having a but of an anxiety issue

  • Buffering

    138d

    Going for a topless drive in my Jeep with the music turned up

  • Kittypop

    132d

    Singing in the shower, petting my rescue cat, doing my skincare routine

  • phaed

    119d

    showering is always my go to. it’s physically and mentally cleansing.

  • Deep_Feelings

    118d

    I’m not sure I have any (or I can’t think of any). I’m getting new ideas from the content section, though.

    • Deep_Feelings

      118d

      *comment section

  • Trudie_tootie

    118d

    I like to eat an orange in the shower and use the peel as like aromatherapy in the hot water. Sounds weird but it feels like a lil treat.

  • iheartcougars

    118d

    Ok i do this all the time and everyone else calls me wierd??? I also put the orange in the fridge first so its nice and crisp 😂

  • Tracks

    118d

    Yes, and no it to be honest.

  • chaotic_bi_mess

    82d

    cuddles with pets, cosy blankets, a hot cup of tea and listening to music :))

  • Walking_Library

    81d

    Just crying and letting it all out. It’s easier to do everything else when I don’t feel like a soda can about to burst.

  • zofranfilledzebra

    81d

    Distraction and self soothing, both of which usually involve Bobs Burgers episodes or music from the show playing continuously/on repeat while I make art(draw/doodle, paint with watercolors, knit, collages, digital art edits...whatever! It doesn't matter what kind, just depends on the day and mood) or pet and cuddle with my cat(a gray 4 year old 14 pound feline who follows me everywhere around my home, who is my ESA) and my partner's dog(a 3 year old Siberian husky with heterochromia and beautiful eyes, who is super smart, super outspoken, and who is their--my partner's ESA, but we also spend almost every day together and she cuddles with me a lot while they're at work). I also recently moved somewhere with a bathtub and am excited to have that option!🛀 On days when things are the hardest, though, I do a few different things. For example: If my pain is bad, I stay in bed, take large amounts of CBD oil, my prescribed amount of Baclofen, some ibuprofen, and play Bobs Burgers with headphones at a low volume on my phone, with my eyes shut(I know most of the early episodes by sound anyway since I've been listening to/watching them for 10 years and my memory, defective as it is--thx✨ TBI, is mostly auditory), in bed with a soft blanket and my soft robe on, and the window open to let in fresh air. My cat son and step-dogter(/dog step-daughter) will join me for cuddles at some point too. I also sometimes have my heating pad, and, sometimes, dairy free meal replacement drinks(because those are a good place for me to start when solid food feels unfathomably challenging) and Zofran(so I can get full credit from my body for the effort of consuming a meal of sorts).

    • zofranfilledzebra

      81d

      It seems I've over-shared on the internet again🫠

  • Mudi

    81d

    Just dropped my son at the Rail Station to attend the university Now having tea with loads of medication

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