I soak my feet in a basin with moisturizing soap mixed in and watch a funny TV show. I also take the time to use a face scrub on my feet to scrub out the dead skin, feels amazing
there are a lot on Spotify! Or sometimes I just find true crime videos on YouTube and turn my screen off and just listen to them like podcasts if the narration is good
learning how to hype myself up :)
took a long time to learn to love myself; but when you realize you're gonna be stuck with you forever; might as well love who you are and constantly see yourself improve to love yourself even more
I'm so sorry. I know exactly how you feel. I've had so many of my doggies die in my lifetime. ( We always had a lot of them growing up. We had a lot of property to adopt and rescue). The best thing to focus on is the good life that you gave them and how much different that it could have been for them. Remember, getting another dog is not "replacing your other baby". It's giving another one a chance to have a great life.
Yoga, meditation, listening to meditation music, 🧘🏽♀️ A nice hot bubble bath with a glass of wine or champagne, Stargazing, long walks in the park are on the beach to view the sunset 🌇 ✨️
Mediate deep into being greatful . Prayer. Music. Hot Tea. Get on yoga mat for stretching. Get out for a full body massage as often as possible. Take a walk with a friend.
I actively do things to add to my hobbies, interests, and self improvement. I am not my illness, my personality is not made by my illness it is made by me. I dont use my illnesses as a crutch, only as inspiration to improve how ever feels right for me.
Cry. Just let it all go. It's so frustrating when people think thsy crying doesn't solve anything. I disagree somewhat, sure, it won't actually fix your problem but sometimes a good cry can solve internal turmoil to a degree. With that, I say that it does solve stuff
I do my nails and any art I have the energy for and when I’m feeling hopeless I grab whatever crystal fits the mood turn off the lights and listen to chill music we only get one life and one body and we survive and try to thrive or the sadness and sickness can swallow us whole
Genuine self love. Remembering that I know how hard I've tried, I know how hard it is, and I love myself even with my flaws because I know I'm always doing my best.
I'm not that great at keeping up on my self care, but the couple things I do have to do with my appearance. I've been wearing acrylic nails for about 2.5 years, I have one nail tech I'm very loyal to because he does beautiful artwork and we have great talks. I get a pedicure as well about every month or so, and I keep up on my hair, keeping it trimmed and colored to get rid of the greys I'm too young to show. I have a bit of a makeup addiction and I love doing my makeup as a form of self care and art. Honestly when I'm looking my best its hard to feel down in the dumps.
I will literally sit in a room alone and talk to myself in a mirror just having a therapy session expressing my thoughts/emotions and somehow that really really helps me to connect to my feelings and validate them/understand them better in the same way I would for a loved one
A warm cup of coffee in my favorite mug, giving myself permission to rest in bed in my comfy clothes, watching/taking pictures of sunlight playing in the shadows.
I do my nails. I do them myself because one I can't justify spending that much money to get them done and two it's relaxing to do them myself. I've been doing them for about 10 years. They're non acrylics but still it's a process I've created. I feel better about myself with them. It relieves my stress for a bit.
Standing naked infront of the mirror saying affromations of self love, or being outside practicing yoga, or mini spa moments they all help me relax, feel confident, and comforted
I wish I did but I hate myself. I spend most of my days laying in bed wishing myself away and just trying not to act on intrusive dangerous thoughts now
Find some mommy groups in your area. Facebook is a good place to start. You can even try homeschool groups or support groups of any ailments you or your kids have. 👋 Central Texas here
Going on walks (no matter how short), playing video games (sometimes with friends), making myself a hot drink.
Or, on a really bad day, turning on the fairy lights in my room, closing the curtains, getting under my weighted blanket, and watching stuff on my laptop for hours. It doesn't have to be productive, I just need to feel okay.
Calling a friend or younger family member and just asking them to tell u about a mundane part of their day/ vent about something bothering them. It makes me feel like I did something nice for them, plus I try to get out of bed and walk around during it
Music. Video games. Nature. Also training my brain to change my atmosphere and do self care. I'm trying to write more. I like cooking and cleaning sometimes too
showering in cold water and crying. it feels like i’m in a movie as the water runs through my hair lol. also going to my porch and painting my nails and journaling with jhene aiko playing (i recommend w.a.y.s and trigger protection mantra)
Hot baths with Netflix or painting my nails. It’s kinda lame but those small things make me feel so much better. Something so simple as taking a few minutes JUST for me make me feel so much better
I garden, or cuddle my animals. Wrap myself in my weighted blanket, take cold showers, yoga...really depends on what kind of heartache I'm experiencing.
Art..I do a lot of odds and ends...junk Journaling, watercolor painting, sketches, doodles, arts & crafts. Music and art go together like milk and honey.
Skin care. Treat yourself to good quality shower items. Super smelly lotions that make your skin soft, hair products that make your hair soft, quality shaving products, creamy texture body butters. When you feel good on the exterior it truly helps with your interior and mental health.
Reality tv tbh. Also trying new recipes, or taking hot showers and singing along to my favorite songs. Ooo and if you have pets mostly like a dog or cat not like a fish (sorry fishes 😅) but go play with them. It’s honestly boosts my mood seeing them happily playing. They do the cutest funniest things 😄
Distraction and self soothing, both of which usually involve Bobs Burgers episodes or music from the show playing continuously/on repeat while I make art(draw/doodle, paint with watercolors, knit, collages, digital art edits...whatever! It doesn't matter what kind, just depends on the day and mood) or pet and cuddle with my cat(a gray 4 year old 14 pound feline who follows me everywhere around my home, who is my ESA) and my partner's dog(a 3 year old Siberian husky with heterochromia and beautiful eyes, who is super smart, super outspoken, and who is their--my partner's ESA, but we also spend almost every day together and she cuddles with me a lot while they're at work). I also recently moved somewhere with a bathtub and am excited to have that option!🛀
On days when things are the hardest, though, I do a few different things. For example: If my pain is bad, I stay in bed, take large amounts of CBD oil, my prescribed amount of Baclofen, some ibuprofen, and play Bobs Burgers with headphones at a low volume on my phone, with my eyes shut(I know most of the early episodes by sound anyway since I've been listening to/watching them for 10 years and my memory, defective as it is--thx✨ TBI, is mostly auditory), in bed with a soft blanket and my soft robe on, and the window open to let in fresh air. My cat son and step-dogter(/dog step-daughter) will join me for cuddles at some point too. I also sometimes have my heating pad, and, sometimes, dairy free meal replacement drinks(because those are a good place for me to start when solid food feels unfathomably challenging) and Zofran(so I can get full credit from my body for the effort of consuming a meal of sorts).
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