How do I talk to my parents about being gay?

If yougo to therapy for your depression you could ask about having a group session with your therapist. If you don't see a therapist then you could look into family therapy. That way you could have someone to help mediate. Also it can possibly keep your parents from saying some nasty things. People are less likely to say hate speech when someone is watching them, especially someone who has some form of power over them.

This might be a bit insensitive and I apologize in advance for not finding the correct words, but about the sexuality part, who cares? It doesn't and shouldn't matter what gender you love so if you already came out then theres no reason to really talk about it until you find who you love. Maybe it's an unpopular opinion but it's really no ones business who you love except you. Of course approval is important but as long as you are happy with who you are it really shouldn't matter other people's opinions. Trauma part is iffy cause sometimes it's not worth it to tell your abuser that they abused you if you need help then get help but be careful with what you tell your parents if they are the cause 'cause 8 times out of 10 it makes things worse. Stay strong love in here for you ♡